Am I wrong for not telling my FH that......

Original post by Panamasweet

Apr 28, 2009 03:08 PM

I am getting a DOC? I am meeting with her on Sunday. I waited until my FH was in FL to meet with her. He is leaving Friday and coming back Monday. I've talked to him about it before and he thinks its a waist of money but I know my cell phone will be ringing off the hook on the day of my wedding. I have so many out of town guests I have a feeling its going to be hectic. After all of this planning I want to relax and enjoy myself. I figured I would tell him the morning of the wedding hoping he wouldnt dare argue with me on our wedding day. I know I have to tell him at some point before he starts to question who this woman is thats giving orders....

MrsDR2010 Posted: Apr 28, 2009 08:03 PM

Re: Am I wrong for not telling my FH that......

i don't think so...who are u using?

Sweeteey51 Posted: Apr 28, 2009 09:03 PM

Re: Am I wrong for not telling my FH that......

Um i would just tell him youll look real sneaky and honestly its really not that serious not to tell him.

Panamasweet Posted: Apr 29, 2009 08:10 AM

Re: Am I wrong for not telling my FH that......

Posted by princessSDG

i don't think so...who are u using?

Its looking like i will be using Cynthia Ross. She comes highly recommended by many brides on here.

debzy Posted: Apr 29, 2009 09:56 AM

Re: Am I wrong for not telling my FH that......

Posted by MikesBride2B

Honestly, I don't think its a good idea to not tell him about it. To me it seems like a bad way to start a life together (on lies)

Sorry, I know that's probably not what you wanted to hear.

I totally agree. I don't see how starting your marriage off with a lie can be good for building trust. Plus, you need to learn to talk out these issues and reach compromises. In the grand scheme of things, this is really minor. What happens when it's a really huge expense? Or related to your children? It's better to be open, honest and talk about issues up front.

italgal Posted: Apr 29, 2009 10:26 AM

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ABSOLUTLY TELL HIM! & don't try anything sneaky.The last thing you'll want to do is piss him off the day of your wedding. You have the rest of your life to piss him off.