Am I wrong to feel this way? Long

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Posted by kellwolfe

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Posted by JanuaryBride06

Yes please call her!
I actually told her I wasn't coming this weekend. She said that the party could go on without me. Nice engagement party

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What's the number!! I will call her now you come hang out with me...F the party

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OMG! Thank you for making me LAUGH about this!!!

sounds like the party is this weekend, yes? imho, there's not much you can do. if i were in this situation i would take the back seat, let her do what she's going to do, and then make it clear to your friends/family that you & your parents aren't invovled and are just letting her do her thang. by doing that, most people i think will get the gist that this woman wants it to be all about her.

of course, if you don't like that suggestion, you could always send her to this website with the history of engagement parties - that might stop her dead in her tracks: http://save-the-date.invitesite.com/announce_history.html



good luck. and just think, even if you get stuck with the party with fmil from hell, you might get some cool gifts.

You should tell her that you feel bad that she's done soooooo much already like someone said above- better yet, let FH tell her. But then you are going to have to suck it up and pay for it. . . . good luck. I feel your pain.

Thank you all for responding - it means a lot and it's helped me so much.

Thanks!