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and Guest dilemma **Updated**

Original post by trojo1521

The entire 'and Guest' thing has been giving me headaches lately, but this one takes the cake...

I invited a girl I taught with last year to the wedding. We were super close, but since she changed schools, we really don't speak much anymore. I did invite her out of guilt since every time we do talk all she wants to hear about it the wedding, etc. I addressed the invite to only her without a guest because she will know a lot of people there anyway.

Well today, I get her reply and she added a guest for herself! The nerve of some people!

My question for you ladies is how do I tell her that she can't bring a date, while still being tactful and without hurting her feelings?

Thanks

*************UPDATE*************************************

So for all of you ladies who offered tactful ways to approach my friend, thank you. But I will say, all was lost on her. She didn't get why she couldn't have a guest, even after I said it was about the $$$. She said she figured she would get back together with her boyfriend by the wedding and she figured it wouldn't be an issue.

In closing she said that if everyone else from my school was invited with a guest, she didn't think it was fair that she was not...I HATE PEOPLE!! I should have never invited her
hwolf812 Posted:

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Posted by angl2001

anyone who does that to me is getting a phone call! I am gonna expalin to them that i can not fit nor afford any more guests thats why the invite was made out to them only!



i agree. im going to be on the phone so fast if anyone even thinks of pulling that kind of crap
trojo1521 Posted:

Re: and Guest dilemma **Updated**

I hate people!!!

AR31 Posted:

Re: and Guest dilemma **Updated**

wow.. that one really does take the cake.. i don't know what to tell you..
Shelly9697 Posted:

Re: and Guest dilemma **Updated**

WOW!! I cant believe she acted that way when you called her out on it. Hmmm....I dnt even know what to say!! Sorry you have to deal with this!!
LnF0405 Posted:

Re: and Guest dilemma **Updated**

OMG people are crazy I will tell her, I am sorry is not about been fair or not we cant have you with a guest and that is our final answer I would understand If you dont want to come because I cant acomodate your companion

mnd1202 Posted:

Re: and Guest dilemma **Updated**

that sux i cant believe some people they are so rude

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