And so,the cancellations, begin...

It will still be beautiful.

Your wedding will be beautiful and I doubt you will even notice the missing people that day.

Hey, I had 51 people at my wedding. It should have been 55 but 4 people cancelled the day before I think our wedding was perfect. I thought it would seem stupidly small, but it wasn't. I still felt like I didn't have enough time to talk to everyone for as long as I wanted. Your day will be perfect and I am sure you will appreciate the amount of people at the end.

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Posted by Michy2009

Thanks ladies....I am just feeling sorry for myself at the moment..

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i totally hear you on this! I am so afraid for the cancellations to come in. Almost 50% of my guest list replied no..so I am having 'Small wedding sydrome' too. I was super depressed for the last week and was finally able to pull myself out of it. Hopefully you will too. I know the cancellation is a setback no one wants, but your wedding will still be gorgeous and amazing no matter if they're there or not

Another small wedding here, we guaranteed a min of 50 guests at ours and so far we have 46 people who RSVP'ed yes (verbally or by mail). If our RH allows us to count the vendors toward our minimum, we should be just fine.
I didn't want a big wedding - too many headaches and stress.

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Posted by MrsSx2

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Posted by Michy2009

Thanks ladies....I am just feeling sorry for myself at the moment..

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i totally hear you on this! I am so afraid for the cancellations to come in. Almost 50% of my guest list replied no..so I am having 'Small wedding sydrome' too. I was super depressed for the last week and was finally able to pull myself out of it. Hopefully you will too. I know the cancellation is a setback no one wants, but your wedding will still be gorgeous and amazing no matter if they're there or not

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I am just afraid with such a small number...people might not get up and dance and the 'party' aspect of the wedding will be kinda tame. That honestly is my greatest fear. I also think I just get used to seeing people on here saying how they are having like 200 guests...and it makes me feel kinda pathetic..LOL.

Hey, on the upside...less people I have to pay for!!

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Posted by Michy2009

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Posted by MrsSx2

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Posted by Michy2009

Thanks ladies....I am just feeling sorry for myself at the moment..

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i totally hear you on this! I am so afraid for the cancellations to come in. Almost 50% of my guest list replied no..so I am having 'Small wedding sydrome' too. I was super depressed for the last week and was finally able to pull myself out of it. Hopefully you will too. I know the cancellation is a setback no one wants, but your wedding will still be gorgeous and amazing no matter if they're there or not

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I am just afraid with such a small number...people might not get up and dance and the 'party' aspect of the wedding will be kinda tame. That honestly is my greatest fear. I also think I just get used to seeing people on here saying how they are having like 200 guests...and it makes me feel kinda pathetic..LOL.

Hey, on the upside...less people I have to pay for!!

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OMG! I am so worried about a pathetic looking dance floor too lol! You're so right about the paying for less people! Its like every time we got a 'no', I'd b!tch about it, and FH would rejoice in the fact that we're less!

I made my sister in laws swear they would get up and dance...

seriously...like I said, I was expecting to have like 80 people..so I am ending up paying like $1500 less at this point..so that is a good thing.

People still get up and dance trust me!
All my peeps were outside since it was a weird hot March day and I'd say half the crowd was inside (75) and they danced!

Is there liquor? People will dance lol.

I know the room you are in and 65 will look crowded enough!


ps: My BFF and her GF want to get married and think only 50 will show since they are gay (a shame) but it will be great just the same. Quality of quantity!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by dfw343

People still get up and dance trust me!
All my peeps were outside since it was a weird hot March day and I'd say half the crowd was inside (75) and they danced!

Is there liquor? People will dance lol.

I know the room you are in and 65 will look crowded enough!


ps: My BFF and her GF want to get married and think only 50 will show since they are gay (a shame) but it will be great just the same. Quality of quantity!!!!!!!!!!

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Jayne...yes, I did think the same thing...thank God I booked the small room cause it will still look full!!

And yes...there will be plenty of liquor!!