annoyed at FSIL (with update)

FH and I went out on Saturday with his two brothers, their wives, and their kids.

I took a bunch of pictures and posted a few on FB. When I went to tag FSIL, i noticed we were no longer friends. So i re-requested her friendship and got a facebook email this morning that said that she removed me on purpose because i didn't ask her son to be the RB, even though i asked FH's niece to be the FG (ps: she did accept my friendship request)

How juvenile is this! it's ridiculous! her son's a year old and would never walk down the aisle by himself!!! we told her this from the get-go! We also said that it doesn't mean we don't love him, nor that he won't be in pictures and whatnot!

uch, i'm kind of pissed ... removing people off your FB is soooo childish.

every day, i hate FH's family a little bit more

ETA: there's an update at the bottom

wow, I have to laugh at this. That is soooo immature!!! What a weird, passive aggressive move.

WOW! That's so stupid! How immature.

join the club each time I think they cant be anymore incosiderate and selfish they reach new heights

what a stupid thing to un-FB someone
I didnt even know it was that big of a deal - RG! u would think u denied them their inheritance or something

the funniest thing is that if u did made him a RB she prob had complaints about that too
oy wey

are you KIDDING? wow...is she in high school?

anyone knows that kids are unpredictable at events.

My friends nephew threw a temper tantrum while walking down the aisle. He threw himself on the floor and had to be picked up by his mother and taken back to sit with her.

He was 2.5 and honestly way too young really to be expected to act like an adult at a huge event with lots of people watching him.

I hope your FH realizes his sister is an azzz!

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Posted by allornil
I hope your FH realizes his sister is an azzz!

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it's his SIL (his brother's wife) ... but yes, he does realize it

OMG so now FSIL has the balls to write back to me that she never expected her son to be the RB, but she wanted him to walk down the aisle with Leah (FH's niece, the FG) ...

this girl is effing disgusting and i am currently very close to telling her off.

please help me figure out what to tell this moron (if anything)

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

OMG so now FSIL has the balls to write back to me that she never expected her son to be the RB, but she wanted him to walk down the aisle with Leah (FH's niece, the FG) ...

this girl is effing disgusting and i am currently very close to telling her off.

please help me figure out what to tell this moron (if anything)

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that doesnt even make sense!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! why would he walk down the aisle if he wasnt in the bridal party?

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

OMG so now FSIL has the balls to write back to me that she never expected her son to be the RB, but she wanted him to walk down the aisle with Leah (FH's niece, the FG) ...

this girl is effing disgusting and i am currently very close to telling her off.

please help me figure out what to tell this moron (if anything)

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I would just stick tough and tell her you have everything planned and the arrangements are final. Thank her for the offer, but politely decline and let her know that while he will not be a part of the ceremony he will certainly be in all of the appropriate wedding photos.

Good luck - this chick is loony!

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Posted by elp6421

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

OMG so now FSIL has the balls to write back to me that she never expected her son to be the RB, but she wanted him to walk down the aisle with Leah (FH's niece, the FG) ...

this girl is effing disgusting and i am currently very close to telling her off.

please help me figure out what to tell this moron (if anything)

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I would just stick tough and tell her you have everything planned and the arrangements are final. Thank her for the offer, but politely decline and let her know that while he will not be a part of the ceremony he will certainly be in all of the appropriate wedding photos.

Good luck - this chick is loony!

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Agreed- or I might not even bother to respond. She's BSC!

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Posted by elp6421
politely decline and let her know that while he will not be a part of the ceremony he will certainly be in all of the appropriate wedding photos.

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i already told her that in my previous email ...

i am *this* close to telling her that if she thinks that both FH's niece and nephew should be treated equally (that's what she said in her latest email), that she can tell his niece that she's no longer the FG.

luckily, i didn't actually say that lol

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Posted by jmgoncal

I'm confused - the reason he's not a RB is because he's too YOUNG, but she thinks he should still be walking down the aisle??!?! Isn't that the exact problem?!?!

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He's not an RB for a few reasons. FH agreed to only have one RB and one FG (one from his side of the family, one from mine) ... so he chose the oldest child, and so did i.

But in addition to that, the fact that her son's young is the other part of the problem (he only started walking at a year old and will be a year and a half old at the wedding)

yeah, she's makes no sense ... i shouldn't have expected anything more from her i guess

Can you have FH speak to her? I have been de-friended by two of FH's aunts (both claim to have done it 'accidetally').

At this point, I actually refuse to speak to either one of them (one is the mother of my jr bm) and everytime they do something childish FH deals with it b/c its his family.

What gives people the nerve to get angry about decisions you and FH make together for your wedding! That is incredible to me..

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Posted by RAK220

Can you have FH speak to her? I have been de-friended by two of FH's aunts (both claim to have done it 'accidetally').

At this point, I actually refuse to speak to either one of them (one is the mother of my jr bm) and everytime they do something childish FH deals with it b/c its his family.

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thing is that FH *has* spoken to FSIL (and his bro too) when the issue first came up about 4 months ago (when we asked his niece to be the FG, but didn't ask the nephew to be involved) ... i'm actually shocked it's still an issue!