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Another BM problem ---HELP!

kkattau Posted: Jun 14, 2003 06:07 PM+

kkattau MEMBER SINCE: 3/03 TOTAL POSTS : 217 WEDDING DATE: Jan 31, 2004

Posted: Jun 14, 2003 06:07 PM

Another BM problem ---HELP!

I am very torn as to what to do. I have been friends with this girl since i was in Kindegarden. About 2 years ago we had a falling out. About 3 months ago we rekindled our friendship. I picked my BMs before we became friends again and the dresses are ordered already. I feel like I should ask her to be in the wedding (I do have time for her to get the dress) but I'm not sure if I should. I know she would say yes if I asked her. HELP!!!

mlp924 Posted: Jun 14, 2003 06:12 PM+

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Posted: Jun 14, 2003 06:12 PM

Re: Another BM problem ---HELP!

If you ask her then you will have no regrets but if you don't ......you will always wonder if you should have or if she feells slighted.

I say ask her and enjoy each other again!

butterfly20 Posted: Jun 14, 2003 06:46 PM+

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Posted: Jun 14, 2003 06:46 PM

Re: Another BM problem ---HELP!

if you dont put her in the bridal party she could always do a reading.. but if your close then you should ask her if you like!

Julybaby Posted: Jun 14, 2003 06:47 PM+

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Posted: Jun 14, 2003 06:47 PM

Re: Another BM problem ---HELP!

Can you ask this friend to do a reading, or greet the guests and hand out programs? I have a couple of friends that I want involved but are not BMs. She can still be a part of your day.