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what would you or do you do...if your FH has tons of porn? how does it make you feel? do you forsee it could be a problem in the long run?
I think porn is fine, and I joke around with him about it. I would rather that then him looking elsewhere for the real thing.
Posted by teenigrrl
Posted by Soon2beAlberti
well...with the internet...theres unlimited access...but what if you found a folder with ...maybe like 50 video clips or more of porn. would you freak out or be upset?
that sounds like DH's computer. i have no problem with it. each clip is like 30 seconds (no wonder why he has so many). as long as it doesn't interfere w/ our lives, i have no problem with it at all. now if he was hiding it all, sneaking away just to watch, trying to get me out of the house so we could watch, then i think that's a problem.
Posted by Espo22
Posted by soon2bmrsconnolly
I think the problem lies in the fact that the guys watch the porn, and suddenly expect their girlfriends to turn into the women on the screen. I have had to reming FH several times that I am NOT a porn star.I have boundries that those women never had.
Also...He always thinks that his friends have porn star girlfriends and that they get it all the time. I have to assure him that no typical man gets it more than any other!![]()
hmmm i dont think all men think like that. As far as crazy and nasty things, alot of men dont expect that from their gf or wife. Fh puts strippers and porn stars in a different category, not ever someone he would've dated, a 1 night stand maybe. He is even weird and doesnt want his wife doing some of those things bc then she would be put in that category and this i mean as nasty crazy things not regular type stuff. Hmmm i hope i made sense and explained what i am trying to get across. I once brought something up and nothing crazy at all and not something that is associated with porn i mean probably comes out but its not the act itself lol...anyways fh was like OH NO i cant thats what you do with girls you dont care about. Ive heard a few guys say things like that
Porn is a mere enhancement. I've learned that it's okay for your guy to watch without having to feel threatened. My ex would drive me crazy with it and it made me hate everything about it. But with my FH, I've come to appreciate it because he doesn't use it as a way of pi$$ing me off. Besides, how can you beat the low budget film thats used, hearing the beds squeaking and that AWESOME music in the background. How can you take that $hit serious? Pure entertainment!
I found some porn tapes in FH closet the other day. He says he doesn't watch them anymore since he watches the ones his best friend send him to view online. i know he doesn't and I don't like it at all but what can I do? I know he is going to watch it either way. He tries to get me to watch it with him but in all honesty the fakeness makes me laugh lol
nope!! i love it too, so its fine! we watch it together!
