Any Christian Brides???

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by egem523

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by egem523

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by egem523

In these meeting do they ask you what bothers you about one another, or what you need to improve. I think this what my cousin is doing aside from Precana

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it is a lot of different things...

there are chapters that have to do with different subjects..

really knowing each other
budgets
communication
spiritual compatibility
personal history .....etc

at the end of each there is project you have to do and although it's time consuming and not super convinient we have been really learning a lot!!!! and the projects make you have all different kinds of convos...and it was awesome to make like a married life budget and target goals etc...

last night after we were doing communication lol for and hour and 40 minutes i wondered if anyone else was doing a course like this...

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I had the short version lol... with my Pastor and it was great!!! It really seals the deal why we were getting married. I am not joking my cousin fh has to walk with rocks in shoes as penance so he doesn't forget what he needs to work on

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seriously rocks...????

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I swear and she says he has been doing it and sticking to it. Can you imagine

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wow!! well i hope they have discernment to know what works for them...i know i could not co sign the rocks...lol

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i agree I would co-sign the xbox disapprearing for awhile!!

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Posted by egem523

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by egem523

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by egem523

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by egem523

In these meeting do they ask you what bothers you about one another, or what you need to improve. I think this what my cousin is doing aside from Precana

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it is a lot of different things...

there are chapters that have to do with different subjects..

really knowing each other
budgets
communication
spiritual compatibility
personal history .....etc

at the end of each there is project you have to do and although it's time consuming and not super convinient we have been really learning a lot!!!! and the projects make you have all different kinds of convos...and it was awesome to make like a married life budget and target goals etc...

last night after we were doing communication lol for and hour and 40 minutes i wondered if anyone else was doing a course like this...

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I had the short version lol... with my Pastor and it was great!!! It really seals the deal why we were getting married. I am not joking my cousin fh has to walk with rocks in shoes as penance so he doesn't forget what he needs to work on

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seriously rocks...????

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I swear and she says he has been doing it and sticking to it. Can you imagine

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wow!! well i hope they have discernment to know what works for them...i know i could not co sign the rocks...lol

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i agree I would co-sign the xbox disapprearing for awhile!!

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WHERE DO I SIGN UP FOR THAR CLASS!!!!!

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by ladybengal

wow...not me ...the lord knows im not doing that

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i truthfully don't think He wants you to...

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radical christian they must be meeting with

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by egem523

In these meeting do they ask you what bothers you about one another, or what you need to improve. I think this what my cousin is doing aside from Precana

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it is a lot of different things...

there are chapters that have to do with different subjects..

really knowing each other
budgets
communication
spiritual compatibility
personal history .....etc

at the end of each there is project you have to do and although it's time consuming and not super convinient we have been really learning a lot!!!! and the projects make you have all different kinds of convos...and it was awesome to make like a married life budget and target goals etc...

last night after we were doing communication lol for and hour and 40 minutes i wondered if anyone else was doing a course like this...

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we did pre-cana and we absolutly LOVED IT.. it was an awesome communication tool to talk about things you may not have brought up yet. and we loved all the people we met there too.

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Posted by pandafish519

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by egem523

In these meeting do they ask you what bothers you about one another, or what you need to improve. I think this what my cousin is doing aside from Precana

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it is a lot of different things...

there are chapters that have to do with different subjects..

really knowing each other
budgets
communication
spiritual compatibility
personal history .....etc

at the end of each there is project you have to do and although it's time consuming and not super convinient we have been really learning a lot!!!! and the projects make you have all different kinds of convos...and it was awesome to make like a married life budget and target goals etc...

last night after we were doing communication lol for and hour and 40 minutes i wondered if anyone else was doing a course like this...

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we did pre-cana and we absolutly LOVED IT.. it was an awesome communication tool to talk about things you may not have brought up yet. and we loved all the people we met there too.

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yeah it awesome...

did you meet once or numerous times ???

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Posted by egem523

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by ladybengal

wow...not me ...the lord knows im not doing that

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i truthfully don't think He wants you to...

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radical christian they must be meeting with

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SERIOUSLY...GIVING US A BAD RAP...

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Posted by asg450

FH's pastor told us we would only need to take 6 premarital classes and we could spread them out; like 1 class a month.

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IT'S COOL TO SPREAD IT OUT LIKE THAT...B/C WE HAVE BEEN GOING EVERY WEEK...

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by egem523

In these meeting do they ask you what bothers you about one another, or what you need to improve. I think this what my cousin is doing aside from Precana

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it is a lot of different things...

there are chapters that have to do with different subjects..

really knowing each other
budgets
communication
spiritual compatibility
personal history .....etc

at the end of each there is project you have to do and although it's time consuming and not super convinient we have been really learning a lot!!!! and the projects make you have all different kinds of convos...and it was awesome to make like a married life budget and target goals etc...

last night after we were doing communication lol for and hour and 40 minutes i wondered if anyone else was doing a course like this...

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FH and I are doing something similar to this w/ our pastor. Its 8 weeks but one chapter talks about having children before marriage and we don't have children so we don't have to do that one. We've been doubling up the lessons b/c we started late. Its not a huge text book but its a booklet w/ about 8 chapters and 3 CD w/ previous services on them. Each week we're doing 2 chapters. They're on things like:
- communication
- being equally yolked
- spirituality
- your parents and their marriage (how it plays into who you are as a person)
- money and budgeting

a lot of the questions have references to scriptures in the bible to help you answer them. Some aren't just common knowledge answers they are according to the bible.

Is this what you are doing?

I think we got the cliff notes version of premartial counseling. 3 or 4 hour sessions with our pastor. FH and I live in different states, and we really wanted to do premartial counseling together, not over the phone. So, my pastor agreed to do it with us over his Spring Break. We loved it! Our pastor kinda based it on a 'tool belt' and having different 'tools' for our marriage. We had to describe what our tool belts looked like, so I think I'm going to go find a leather studded one for FH...

We had 4 or 5 meetings, each were about 2 hours long! HTH!

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Posted by pooh57362

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Posted by evewedsjc

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Posted by egem523

In these meeting do they ask you what bothers you about one another, or what you need to improve. I think this what my cousin is doing aside from Precana

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it is a lot of different things...

there are chapters that have to do with different subjects..

really knowing each other
budgets
communication
spiritual compatibility
personal history .....etc

at the end of each there is project you have to do and although it's time consuming and not super convinient we have been really learning a lot!!!! and the projects make you have all different kinds of convos...and it was awesome to make like a married life budget and target goals etc...

last night after we were doing communication lol for and hour and 40 minutes i wondered if anyone else was doing a course like this...

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FH and I are doing something similar to this w/ our pastor. Its 8 weeks but one chapter talks about having children before marriage and we don't have children so we don't have to do that one. We've been doubling up the lessons b/c we started late. Its not a huge text book but its a booklet w/ about 8 chapters and 3 CD w/ previous services on them. Each week we're doing 2 chapters. They're on things like:
- communication
- being equally yolked
- spirituality
- your parents and their marriage (how it plays into who you are as a person)
- money and budgeting

a lot of the questions have references to scriptures in the bible to help you answer them. Some aren't just common knowledge answers they are according to the bible.

Is this what you are doing?

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sounds the same...

but i definitely have a book not a booklet...lol

but we may be in the same course for sure!!!