Any suggestions or advice

Dianaandgreg Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:10 AM

Any suggestions or advice

I justed started planning our wedding... Can anyone suggest any reception halls or advise not to go to any certain ones? Please, I would appreciate any advice.... Very overwhelmed

JENNCHRIS Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:11 AM

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Well, start with what you are looking for - small wedding, big wedding; fancy or casual...
We'll help don't worry

wenndypoo Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:12 AM

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Hey Diana, congratulations and welcome.

It is very overwhelming at first, but don't worry, you've come to the right place for help!

Tell us a little more about what you are looking for, i.e., number of people, location, price,etc.

HappyLady05 Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:12 AM

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HOw many people??? what's your price range? style????

you'll receive tons of suggestions on here but make sure that you always do your own research because everyone has different tastes!!!!

cocoa Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:13 AM

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Congratulations!!!!! How exciting and welcome!!! Well, to start off, where are you? Do you prefer to be in Nassau or Suffolk, or the city? What kind and size wedding would you like? We are all here to help you!

september2004 Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:13 AM

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congrats! welcome!

for starters, browse the LIW boards and check out http://www.weddingsitesandservices.com/.

Jan05Bride Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:17 AM

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First off congratulations!
This is an exciting time in your life - it's extremely overwhelming but take your time and figure out what you and FH want!
Second, sit down with FH (and family too) and talk MONEY and figure out how much you can REALISTICALLY SAVE and the time frame you will need to save it.
Next talk guest list ... 50 people versus 300 people can make a WORLD of difference on where you will look
Then talk about what you want your wedding to be - the look you love - classic, modern, victorian, etc - becuase halls range in their looks
Then talk about the price range you can afford - Price per head x .19 gratuity x .0875 tax = real cost per head
Then you can start looking at halls you want.
Good luck and ask any questions, we are here to help!

JP&EP Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:23 AM

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Hi and Conratulations. Just wanted to add that you'll find the ladies (and even some gents too) here very helpful.

Good luck with your planning

Dianaandgreg Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:23 AM

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Well, I'm planning to have the wedding on either Dec. 2, 2005 or Dec. 3, 2005....
We are inviting 200 people....
I'm not so concerned about what the place looks like, however, I don't want it to look like a flop house.... The food is important....

We can not afford a really expensive place- anything over $110.oo is way too much...

Also, looking for places that have pretty ceremony sites...

Dianaandgreg Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:24 AM

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Thank you everyone for replying and thank you for congratulating me on the engagement ..... I'm very happy...

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:24 AM

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Welcome! Everyone here is so great!!!

Start with some places you already know...that way there are no real surprises. Search through the boards for recommendations and start making those calls girl!!!

deedee Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:25 AM

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Check out the Watermill!
Congrats!

Dianaandgreg Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:30 AM

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I'm taking notes !!!!

Dianaandgreg Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:34 AM

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Anyone hear anything about Villa Lombardi's or Jericho Terrace?

Jan05Bride Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:35 AM

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Here are some questions you should ask when viewing a reception hall
...
Check List:
1. Room Dimensions
2. Max # of people room holds
3. Tables – round, oval, square, rectangle, octagonal
4. # of persons per table
5. How many affairs at a time
6. Wait staff per table
7. Recommended Gratuity – above and beyond the included tax & tip
8. Valet – included?
9. Vendor Dinner Price – ½ price of guests or set amount?
10. Bridal Suite
11. Bathrooms – how do they look
12. Renovations Planned – expected date of start/finish
13. Photo’s of facility in different seasons
14. Menu Options – packages, # of courses, additions, substitutions
15. Wedding Cake – included?
16. Flowers – included? For cocktail hour or reception?
17. Place Cards / Direction Cards – provided?
18. Installments/Payment Plans – do you send courtesy reminder?
19. Is there an affair before ours – time?
20. Type of Payment - Cash, Credit Card, Check
21. Meeting the Maitre’d and Chef
22. Once we choose, discount or free dinner for us and parents
23. Any Tasting Events or Showcases before we book
24. Cake Cutting Service Charge?
25. Smoking room - available?
26. Recommendations / Advice from Event Planner

diamondgrlie Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:36 AM

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Welcome to the group and congrats on your engagement!

I used that Wedding Sites and Servies site like a bible for the first few weeks. (Someone else posted the link I believe)

Dianaandgreg Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:52 AM

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The Woodbury Country club is on my list.. Any suggestions or information from your own expeerience?

Thank you everyone for the warm welcome

MegLehner Posted: Mar 25, 2004 11:53 AM

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I dont know anything about Jericho Terrace - but I have been to Villa Lombardis. My Jr Prom was there and it was really nice. the food is good. My cousin also had her wedding there and I thought it was one of the best cocktail hours I have ever been to.