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Anybody else ready to scream??? Vent here.

beachprincess Posted:

Anybody else ready to scream??? Vent here.

Just wondering if any other brides out there are feeling as stressed out as I am? I had a really crappy weekend and feel like I got nothing accomplished that I wanted to.

I am having shoe issues for one. I shopped all over the place in Pennsylvania where I live for shoes (including one of the biggest malls near Philly) and could not find anything I liked. I found this gorgeous pair of shoes online and they matched perfectly, but they only sell to bridal shops. I took an hour drive to a shop that sells them about a month ago, only to have the lady tell me they no longer sell them and be rude to my mother and me.

Then I found another shop that ordered them for me. They were too narrow, so I had to take them back. Luckily they took them back, but charged me $20 as a restocking fee. Then I get the new pair and they fit in the toes, but are flopping up and down in the back. AHHHH!!!!


So, my mom and I looked for a MOB gown over the weekend. Saw tons of prom gowns, but no MOB gowns!!!!!!!! My wedding is in three and a half months and she still has no dress.

I can't find jewelry I like. Looked everywhere, but nothing is a perfect match.

Called the townhouse place I want to rent from and they have no openings currently. I want to move on May 3rd and have no place to live as of yet.

Work is stressing me out really bad. Before my wedding I have to run a camp for 1,200 kids and organize it all myself over a 4 week period. I have to go to training in Texas for a week after that is over and then work on the weekend I get back at another big camping event for kids. I am in charge of a huge volunteer dinner two days before I leave to get married. I have a banquet coming up that I am in charge of. This week I am afraid I will be pulling all nighters for my job!!!!! And of course I still have some wedding stuff to fit in there somewhere!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So I check my mail and find a notice from the local tax collection agency saying I never filed a tax return with them the past three years and threatening to audit me if I do not respond to their notice. I ALWAYS file my stupid tax return. In fact, they gave me a check two of those years. How stupid are they? I really do not need this right now.

Shelly9697 Posted:

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Sorry to hear that!! Maybe try to make a list, stay organized and tackle one thing at a time!! Also try to do whatever you can online to save time!! Good luck, i'm sure it will all work out!!

Kerin2804 Posted:

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Try to breathe.....You will find the perfect shoes, etc. Your camp will be great and so will your training. Maybe it will be good to get away and submerse yourself into something else.
mRm2008 Posted:

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Sorry hun Step back, take a breath and start with the most important things for right now. It will all work out in the end, don't let it overwhelm you
beachprincess Posted:

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Thanks ladies! Talking on here makes me feel better. I was sitting in the middle of my living room crying just now cause I do not know how everything is going to get done. I have been pretty much on top of the wedding stuff and actually won three awards at my job for doing so well the past year, but I want to keep it up and it is getting harder as the big day approaches. I feel overwhelmed some days. I love planning the wedding, but I have to admit I will be happy when my life gets back to normal.

Mici n KC Posted:

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Just breathe

I'd be careful with the tax company. It could be a scam looking for your information!
beachprincess Posted:

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Hmmm...that thought crossed my mind. I think I had better find their number via the directory assistance or something and straighten this all out tomorrow.

debismom Posted:

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Hey, dollface, don't worry, you'll soon be doing this!!!!!!! Love, Mom
anamaree77 Posted:

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I'm so sorry, I had one of those days today too!! Just relax and get thru it, tomorrow will be brighter!!!!
Luvbsb4eva Posted:

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I am so ready to scream after today too... you're not alone! Work was absolutely horrible today! We were so busy, and some guy yelled at me and told me how horrible the pharmacy was just because he entered the wrong pin too many times and the bank denied his debit card. Of course it was the pharmacy's fault!

I've just felt like i'm about to explode all day, I have so much work to get done for rotation this week (of course I'm on here venting instead, lol) and I worked the entire weekend and got nothing done. I haven't even really thought about wedding stuff for a while... school and work has just taken over my life...
lovebear7800 Posted:

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sorry to hear that.

jeanne08 Posted:

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Oh man! Take a deep breath and tackle one thing at a time. Don't worry yet about summer camp. And since you do have so many things happeneig close to you rwedding focus on wedding stuff first, that way you'll know that it's been completed when you are working on your other projects

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