I do! But he is more like a girlfriend- he is gay. But I also have a lot of guy friends and FH is totally ok with it
mzmahagony
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some of my best friends are guys...for some resaon I get along better with them because they have less drama.......
AngnShaun
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Posted by mzmahagony
some of my best friends are guys...for some resaon I get along better with them because they have less drama.......
i definitely get along better with guys... cause i know my sports so we have stuff to talk about... I have had the same girl friends my whole life otherwise i would probably have very few of them
JAAMS
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yes but he's gay..so FH doesn't care
i have guy friends though...just not best friends...but FH doesn't care...not that i hang out w/ them a lot or anything
miamimerger
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I do, and FH loooooooves him, so I guess we're unusual.
latinaj
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i have one that i've known for 9 years.... we dated for 2 weeks in college.. when we were both freshmen....decided it was dumb to date and we were better off being friends.... he's always been there for me and vice versa... fh thinks he's in love w/me.... he won't even let him come to our wedding.
FutureMrsKuehne
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i have one....been friends for 10 years....he lives in FL though....but FH hates it, he dont care like he never tells me not to talk to him or anything, but FH SWEARS he wants me....and that if i was single, he would be trying to get with me...LOL
men.....
FutureMrsKuehne
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Posted by latinaj
i have one that i've known for 9 years.... we dated for 2 weeks in college.. when we were both freshmen....decided it was dumb to date and we were better off being friends.... he's always been there for me and vice versa... fh thinks he's in love w/me.... he won't even let him come to our wedding.
OMG thats like what i just posted!!!
FH wasnt too happy about him coming to our wedding, but there was NO WAY i wasnt inviting him....
FutureMrsSoltan
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Posted by latinaj
i have one that i've known for 9 years.... we dated for 2 weeks in college.. when we were both freshmen....decided it was dumb to date and we were better off being friends.... he's always been there for me and vice versa... fh thinks he's in love w/me.... he won't even let him come to our wedding.
maybe bc u guys dated he thinks its weirdd ?
FutureMrsKuehne
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yaa FH feels that way because when i was 13....THIRTEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and we first met, i liked him and we made out...........
thats 10 years ago!!!
guys really need to put things in perspective.....LOL
kris_gets_hitched
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I do. We've been friends since we were in high school. Going into my relationship with FH (and any other guys I've dated), I let him know that I had this friend for many, many years and he was my friend prior to the relationship, and I intend to keep my friendship strong with him throughout any romantic relationship I may have.
We travel together, go to concerts together, go out to dinner, go shopping. FH hangs with him sometimes, calls him once in awhile, that kinda thing. I'm glad it worked out for the best.
I was not willing to jeopardize a highly valued friendship with my friend for some guy, and made that clear within the first few weeks of dating FH.
latinaj
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i guess he's jealous bc we did date...but we were 18 .. maybe 1-2 kisses tops. nothing else ... fh is convinced that my friend is in love w/me and will ruin our wedding
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I do. One I kinda have a past with but he's def my bf!! I talk to him online all day, everday about everything!! FH doesn't like him for a few reasons even though they've never met.
I have another close guy friend from kindergarden who FH is cool with.
AdriandSteve
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Posted by latinaj
i guess he's jealous bc we did date...but we were 18 .. maybe 1-2 kisses tops. nothing else ... fh is convinced that my friend is in love w/me and will ruin our wedding
FH thinks this too about my guy friends!!
FutureMrsLMS
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my 2 best friends are gay guys. I've known them since junior year of high school. I, too, have always gotten along better with guys than girls. There isn't as much drama or stupid, petty cat-fights. I guess I am def more of a tom-boy.
grkbarbie
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i have a few but 1 crossed the line verbally.. but i think hes like half retardedd and so does fh.. so he was excused lol
the others get soo annoying .. i dont know, they just irritate me.
kris_gets_hitched
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I did have another close guy friend - another guy from high school.
Unfortunately, I think the engagement didn't sit well with him, as he became a drunken fool over the summer one night and started being really vile toward FH and I, bringing up all sorts of things about both of our ex's (turns out, one of FH's ex's dates someone this guy knows) and being a sloppy mess, saying mean things about the two of us.
I haven't spoken to him since. It was July 4th.
14 years of friendship down the drain in an instant...and sometimes I miss him, but then I remember how vile and wicked he was and get over that feeling pretty quickly.
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Used to have one, who is actually FH cousin by law. When FH and I got together, my 'best friend' did not approve as FH had 'just' (6 months) broken up with his ex of 4 years who he is also friends with. He took her side, saying that I stole her man, sabotaged the realtionship..blah..blah..blah!!! Now I speak to him whenever he is around.
BriansWifey
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i have two good guys friends and FH is definitly cool with them. he talks to them and they fb message back and forth about sports and other random things......... FH has close friends that are girls too. his whole group of friends from HS are a mix of guys n girls so its not weird or anything.
