Anyone stay home/planning to stay home

Original post by plainview

Jul 20, 2006 12:01 PM

with FH the night before the wedding?

jenn122397 Posted: Jul 20, 2006 02:12 PM

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Well since we are getting married the day after Thanksgiving I'm going to see him the day before but he will not be seeing me that night!

Ginal Posted: Jul 20, 2006 05:22 PM

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For some reason I can't explain, I really like the tradition of not seeing the groom right before the ceremony. I am going to stay over my mom's house the night before and not see him until the actual ceremony. It just seems more exciting that way. I don't belive it is bad luck or anything like that though so don't worry! Really, do whatever you feel comfortable with, if you want to see him, go for it!

ellebelle1 Posted: Jul 20, 2006 05:29 PM

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I am staying with my man. We live together anyway. It would just be easier. I don't have to pretend that we don't live together.

julybride06 Posted: Jul 20, 2006 05:56 PM

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no, we're not!

KatenDrew Posted: Jul 20, 2006 09:34 PM

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Since we are having the ceremony and reception at the same place, me and my girls are staying at the Inn there so we can just get up and have the hair and make-up people come right to us, and then start pics right away.

FH will probably stay at our apartment. He wanted to stay at the hotel with his boys, but I am afraid were going to run into each other.

Mdolph6 Posted: Jul 20, 2006 10:04 PM

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Its pretty much tradition for us....we are getting married on a friday so unless the rehearsal dinner is thursday night I will not see him until I walk down the aisle

ncd623 Posted: Jul 20, 2006 10:05 PM

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NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Deedlebug126 Posted: Jul 20, 2006 10:26 PM

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We are staying with each other the night before, at the Hotel. We havent spent a night apart in almost 3 years, I think it would make me more anxious if he weren't with me. FH agrees!

JIFFY Posted: Jul 20, 2006 11:31 PM

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No way! I am so looking foward to sleeping with my cat and not getting kicked all night long!!

tomsgirl07 Posted: Jul 20, 2006 11:56 PM

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I'll be staying at my parents and he'll be staying at the hotel with his family who's all in from out of town.

N.Y.bride Posted: Jul 21, 2006 12:34 AM

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I did! We already lived together and it made no sense not to.

plainview Posted: Jul 21, 2006 10:04 AM

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Thanks for the honest opinions girls.
I think I am going to save myself the extra expense and stay at our home, in different rooms.
He isnt someone who would go out of his way to get a look of me or my dress. I asked him to avoid me, he said he would.
Plus, I am just getting hair and MU at my house, then driving to the place and putting on my dress (they cant open any earlier for me)
And he saw me when I cam back from trials.

FrogGirl0917 Posted: Jul 21, 2006 10:37 AM

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I live at home still, so I will be staying at home the night before. I'm kind of traditional, and very close to my family so this really appeals to me. I will not be seeing FH before the ceremony either.

My brother's 'date' to the wedding will be staying over and sleeping in my room the night of the wedding, and you can be sure that once she wakes up my brother will pack up the rest of my stuff and have it waiting in the living room for me to pick up though!! He can't wait to get my room (he's already drawing up plans for how he'll have it set up!)