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Are you boring too??

Original post by Toucan311

So, I used to be a big party girl, going out all the time, etc. Then I met FH and now my ideal night, in all honesty, is sitting on the couch w/our cats watching a movie and eating some food. I really, truly, have no desire to go 'out-out' to bars and what not. Did anyone else get lame like this? I feel guilty that I never go out w/my friends on a friday night, but the desire just isnt there. And sometimes I *do* sense a little bit of an attitude that I'd prefer to stay home most of the time. Am I alone??

Bridey Bride Posted:

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We just bought a house recently and I actually had a whole conversation with my sister about cedar mulch and cleaning products...it doesn't get much more boring than that! FH is on vacation this week and all he wants to do is work on the house and lawn!

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Snowflake08


Posted by Espo22

I LOVE to go out dancing so i wish i did it more often. Its hard to schedule things with everyone, plus FH never wants to anymore

I would def go a little bit more often, def not partying like crazy all the time bc im too old for that and i dont want to be one of those ppl close to 30 going out every weekend, and HAVING to hit up certain spots all the time



did you have to mention'close to 30' LOL
just kidding
im old, i know but i DID enjoy my 20's!!! big time



hahahha not saying its bad to be close to 30, just was talking about ppl in their late 20's and even in their 30's who sstill go clubbing a couple times a week, every week...having to hit up neptunes every weekend and doing lots of drugs and all that
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by MrsDtoBe

Well, FH and I don't live together yet so we are always going out places together. I'm sure when we move in we'll stay home more than we do now. I can't see us ever NOT going out to the movies, to play pool, get coffee, go to cafes or mini-golfing....we are active and need to keep busy!



yeah thats a little different then...i meant clubbing and partying...FH and I do things all the time just not party all the time...We love going out to restaurants and do it alot, going to the movies and things like that. But thats what i mean by feeling a little older. On saturday or fridays we go out and have dinner instead of partying
Espo22 Posted:

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wednesday is his night with his boys, he actually always goes to howard beach.

Thank you and have fun tonight too getting your drink on



um denise
thats not why he comes to howard beach. . .












that was great tilde, definitely made me laugh

just send him home with some home-made pasta and we're all good



of course!!




AIGHT then it's all good
missK Posted:

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Fh and I went to Freeport last night for happy hour and dinner with friends and looking around I thought 'how lucky am I not to have to do the bar scene again' I had my fun but when we thought about when the last time we went out like that was, we couldnt think of it. I have really gotten boring. How sad
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by missK

Fh and I went to Freeport last night for happy hour and dinner with friends and looking around I thought 'how lucky am I not to have to do the bar scene again' I had my fun but when we thought about when the last time we went out like that was, we couldnt think of it. I have really gotten boring. How sad



hahaha, i went out to a club last weekend with friends and i was like oh thank god im not single anymore. It S*cks for girls, bc looking around you see GORGEOUS girls everywhere, but honestly you can barely find one good looking guy. If you go out and see 1 real good looking guy its a surprise, its like you see one once every few months or something lol, guys have such an advantage. Plus having to deal with that all the time can get annoying
missK Posted:

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Posted by missK

Fh and I went to Freeport last night for happy hour and dinner with friends and looking around I thought 'how lucky am I not to have to do the bar scene again' I had my fun but when we thought about when the last time we went out like that was, we couldnt think of it. I have really gotten boring. How sad



hahaha, i went out to a club last weekend with friends and i was like oh thank god im not single anymore. It S*cks for girls, bc looking around you see GORGEOUS girls everywhere, but honestly you can barely find one good looking guy. If you go out and see 1 real good looking guy its a surprise, its like you see one once every few months or something lol, guys have such an advantage. Plus having to deal with that all the time can get annoying



If you were a single girl that was the place to be. It was 6guys to 1 girl. And it was funny to see the mix of guys. My friend stepped on a guys foot and apologized and he was like Yeah these only cost $300 thanks!!!! I looked at these so called $300 shoes and wondered who ripped him off.!!!! Was I supposed to be impressed????? LOL
ant n tilde Posted:

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If you were a single girl that was the place to be. It was 6guys to 1 girl. And it was funny to see the mix of guys. My friend stepped on a guys foot and apologized and he was like Yeah these only cost $300 thanks!!!! I looked at these so called $300 shoes and wondered who ripped him off.!!!! Was I supposed to be impressed????? LOL



not only were you supposed to be impressed - you were supposed to rip his clothes off right there. . .

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by missK

Fh and I went to Freeport last night for happy hour and dinner with friends and looking around I thought 'how lucky am I not to have to do the bar scene again' I had my fun but when we thought about when the last time we went out like that was, we couldnt think of it. I have really gotten boring. How sad



hahaha, i went out to a club last weekend with friends and i was like oh thank god im not single anymore. It S*cks for girls, bc looking around you see GORGEOUS girls everywhere, but honestly you can barely find one good looking guy. If you go out and see 1 real good looking guy its a surprise, its like you see one once every few months or something lol, guys have such an advantage. Plus having to deal with that all the time can get annoying



If you were a single girl that was the place to be. It was 6guys to 1 girl. And it was funny to see the mix of guys. My friend stepped on a guys foot and apologized and he was like Yeah these only cost $300 thanks!!!! I looked at these so called $300 shoes and wondered who ripped him off.!!!! Was I supposed to be impressed????? LOL



yeah trust me i dealt with BS when i went out last week...One guy was standing by my friends and i and kept tyring to dance with us and then just stand there, he tried again to come behind me and dance, now even when i was single i didnt like any guy to come and dance with me like that. So i told him to go away and he wouldn't, i kept saying sh*t to him until he finally got mad and said to me well thats why you'll always be single, i started laughing and yelled *IM ENGAGED YOU F**** loser* and showed him the ring and cursed him even more, and then he said well hes the finest guy in there as he walked away and no he wasnt lol

then this other guycomes up behind me and puts his hands on my waist, do not touch me if you don't me, even if you do lol don't touch me like that, so i said something to the guy and he got nasty and I pushed him real hard, i didnt even realize at first how hard but he fell back into the crowd, he came back and was being an A** so then the ghetto comes out of me, which i get real ghetto when i get mad, i started throwing my hands up yelling AND WHAT and a bunch of other things lol, then i go closer and someone started pulling me back so i tried to kick him in his head(i can kick high lol) but this guy behind me pulled me back.

So yeah def dont miss those things lol
missK Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde


Posted by missK

If you were a single girl that was the place to be. It was 6guys to 1 girl. And it was funny to see the mix of guys. My friend stepped on a guys foot and apologized and he was like Yeah these only cost $300 thanks!!!! I looked at these so called $300 shoes and wondered who ripped him off.!!!! Was I supposed to be impressed????? LOL



not only were you supposed to be impressed - you were supposed to rip his clothes off right there. . .



oh yeah he was hot . hot like night at the roxbury hot. like chris katan hot... He walked away.
missK Posted:

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Yeah you just brought back memories. I hate when guys think you are touchable. Who do they think you are. and if you push them or move them they interpret that as you want more. They really arent that bright.

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde


Posted by missK

If you were a single girl that was the place to be. It was 6guys to 1 girl. And it was funny to see the mix of guys. My friend stepped on a guys foot and apologized and he was like Yeah these only cost $300 thanks!!!! I looked at these so called $300 shoes and wondered who ripped him off.!!!! Was I supposed to be impressed????? LOL



not only were you supposed to be impressed - you were supposed to rip his clothes off right there. . .



oh yeah he was hot . hot like night at the roxbury hot. like chris katan hot... He walked away.



guys always used to do that...i remember once(single days) this guy walked up to us and within the first 2 mins said 'oh i make x amount a year' i looked at him and said did i ask you, yeah im really impressed and walked away. Another guy shows me his watch and says you know how much this is worth, i said no but my ring is worth more than that(not my e-ring i wasnt engaged then) some ppl need to be put in their place.

Even when i went to ac a few months ago, this guy just comes up to us and says 'i make 100,000 a year, my friends and i started laughing and were like OMG you are just the coolest guy EVER!!! i said i guess you have to tell girls that in order to try and get them bc on your own you can't pick them up.

It used to be fun though telling guys off, i didnt care to meet guys in clubs so i was a b*tch to alot of them
Jasonsgirl Posted:

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I don't go out parting anymore to clubs. I still go out with friends andFH and I still go with friends to bars and stuff.

dream426 Posted:

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We are getting old...lol I feel the same way. I just don't have the desire or energy to go out out anymore. I still do once and awhile. There is still girls night out. But a lot of my friends are in relationships so we don't go out much anymore. The thing we do more is have bbq's or little get togethers at someones house. Plus I just don't have the money to go out like I used to.

missK Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde


Posted by missK

If you were a single girl that was the place to be. It was 6guys to 1 girl. And it was funny to see the mix of guys. My friend stepped on a guys foot and apologized and he was like Yeah these only cost $300 thanks!!!! I looked at these so called $300 shoes and wondered who ripped him off.!!!! Was I supposed to be impressed????? LOL



not only were you supposed to be impressed - you were supposed to rip his clothes off right there. . .



oh yeah he was hot . hot like night at the roxbury hot. like chris katan hot... He walked away.



guys always used to do that...i remember once(single days) this guy walked up to us and within the first 2 mins said 'oh i make x amount a year' i looked at him and said did i ask you, yeah im really impressed and walked away. Another guy shows me his watch and says you know how much this is worth, i said no but my ring is worth more than that(not my e-ring i wasnt engaged then) some ppl need to be put in their place.

Even when i went to ac a few months ago, this guy just comes up to us and says 'i make 100,000 a year, my friends and i started laughing and were like OMG you are just the coolest guy EVER!!! i said i guess you have to tell girls that in order to try and get them bc on your own you can't pick them up.

It used to be fun though telling guys off, i didnt care to meet guys in clubs so i was a b*tch to alot of them



On another note of trying to impress. I had a guy tell me he was well hu.....uhem... ya know . And then proceeded to show me. Hellloooooo???? Did I ask???? I vomited a little i think.. and this is in a club My gfriend and I are scarred for life and just laughed and walked away... A guys got to give his best shot i suppose I guess he didnt have a watch to show me... LOL
beachbum05 Posted:

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I think I'm in the minority here! I still go out a lot - with FH and with my friends. I can't imagine NOT going out with him. We really enjoy being social and grabbing drinks witrh friends.

Neither of us were ever into the club scene (I honestly don't know if I've ever been IN a club - aside from culture club ), but we still like to go out and have fun dancing, etc!!!
megzzie Posted:

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Sometimes I feel like a grandma lol. But I love going out, even if it's just to dinner and a movie. I also love having girl's night out - sometimes you just need those.

DiamondPipa Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by missK


Posted by ant n tilde


Posted by missK

If you were a single girl that was the place to be. It was 6guys to 1 girl. And it was funny to see the mix of guys. My friend stepped on a guys foot and apologized and he was like Yeah these only cost $300 thanks!!!! I looked at these so called $300 shoes and wondered who ripped him off.!!!! Was I supposed to be impressed????? LOL



not only were you supposed to be impressed - you were supposed to rip his clothes off right there. . .



oh yeah he was hot . hot like night at the roxbury hot. like chris katan hot... He walked away.



guys always used to do that...i remember once(single days) this guy walked up to us and within the first 2 mins said 'oh i make x amount a year' i looked at him and said did i ask you, yeah im really impressed and walked away. Another guy shows me his watch and says you know how much this is worth, i said no but my ring is worth more than that(not my e-ring i wasnt engaged then) some ppl need to be put in their place.

Even when i went to ac a few months ago, this guy just comes up to us and says 'i make 100,000 a year, my friends and i started laughing and were like OMG you are just the coolest guy EVER!!! i said i guess you have to tell girls that in order to try and get them bc on your own you can't pick them up.

It used to be fun though telling guys off, i didnt care to meet guys in clubs so i was a b*tch to alot of them



hahah my response to the 100K comment would have been, my FH, b/f, or whatever pays over 100K in taxes a year!!!! hahahahahaha i love messing with people....
MrsD71208 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by missK


Posted by ant n tilde


Posted by missK

If you were a single girl that was the place to be. It was 6guys to 1 girl. And it was funny to see the mix of guys. My friend stepped on a guys foot and apologized and he was like Yeah these only cost $300 thanks!!!! I looked at these so called $300 shoes and wondered who ripped him off.!!!! Was I supposed to be impressed????? LOL



not only were you supposed to be impressed - you were supposed to rip his clothes off right there. . .



oh yeah he was hot . hot like night at the roxbury hot. like chris katan hot... He walked away.



guys always used to do that...i remember once(single days) this guy walked up to us and within the first 2 mins said 'oh i make x amount a year' i looked at him and said did i ask you, yeah im really impressed and walked away. Another guy shows me his watch and says you know how much this is worth, i said no but my ring is worth more than that(not my e-ring i wasnt engaged then) some ppl need to be put in their place.

Even when i went to ac a few months ago, this guy just comes up to us and says 'i make 100,000 a year, my friends and i started laughing and were like OMG you are just the coolest guy EVER!!! i said i guess you have to tell girls that in order to try and get them bc on your own you can't pick them up.

It used to be fun though telling guys off, i didnt care to meet guys in clubs so i was a b*tch to alot of them



hahah my response to the 100K comment would have been, my FH, b/f, or whatever pays over 100K in taxes a year!!!! hahahahahaha i love messing with people....



LOL I was thinking of a comeback too like, '100g's..that's nothing these days! Get a real job!' LMAOOO We are on the same page girl! Guys can be such losers!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde


Posted by missK

If you were a single girl that was the place to be. It was 6guys to 1 girl. And it was funny to see the mix of guys. My friend stepped on a guys foot and apologized and he was like Yeah these only cost $300 thanks!!!! I looked at these so called $300 shoes and wondered who ripped him off.!!!! Was I supposed to be impressed????? LOL



not only were you supposed to be impressed - you were supposed to rip his clothes off right there. . .



oh yeah he was hot . hot like night at the roxbury hot. like chris katan hot... He walked away.



guys always used to do that...i remember once(single days) this guy walked up to us and within the first 2 mins said 'oh i make x amount a year' i looked at him and said did i ask you, yeah im really impressed and walked away. Another guy shows me his watch and says you know how much this is worth, i said no but my ring is worth more than that(not my e-ring i wasnt engaged then) some ppl need to be put in their place.

Even when i went to ac a few months ago, this guy just comes up to us and says 'i make 100,000 a year, my friends and i started laughing and were like OMG you are just the coolest guy EVER!!! i said i guess you have to tell girls that in order to try and get them bc on your own you can't pick them up.

It used to be fun though telling guys off, i didnt care to meet guys in clubs so i was a b*tch to alot of them



hahah my response to the 100K comment would have been, my FH, b/f, or whatever pays over 100K in taxes a year!!!! hahahahahaha i love messing with people....



i always say stupid things back to them, it was so random, i was outside of the club Murmur in the borgata just smoking a cigarette and he said that, it was like 3am and my reaction was just to laugh, and also point out to him that if he had anything else going for him he wouldn't need to say that. Then he felt stupid and his friend was nice, and i told the guy...Listen, if a girl is impressed with money and will jump on you for a comment like that then those are the girls you don't want to meet and hang out with bc they are gold diggers, so infact don't talk about money with girls bc girls that are worth it won't care and won't like that you are talking about it

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