i wasnt gonna....but then we got tee length dresses, so we all thought it looked better with them. if they couldnt find the same shoes i was gonna find a pin or something (like the shoes we decided on) so that they could all have what was comfortable to them but all have something that brought them together. If they had long dresses then i deffinately wanted them to be comfy and i didnt care what they wore!
I have these shoes and they are so comfy. I got them at Annie Sez.
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I am having platinum dresses so they can wear silver shoes (any kind they want)
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Posted by Goldi1021
They can wear whatever shoes they want as long as they match the dresses. To be a member of a bridal party generally implies some uniformity amongst its members and individuality is generally thrown to the wind. My BP members are wearing different dresses in the same color and fabric so they can all be comfy as they vary in size. But I wouldn't be too thrilled if one decided to wear silver and one decided to dye to match. So I asked them to dye. This isn't a time to make a statement. Conforming for one day never killed anyone.
Wow, I disagree with pretty much everything about this statement. But not everyone sees things the same way.
My BM's had free reign with their shoes, they could have worn any color they wanted...they of course all wanted help from me (and I wanted no involvement)...so I said 'make sure it matches the dress and it's comfortable'...they all wore their own silver strappy sandals and looked great AND very much like my BP.
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No. I trust their judgment and no one is going to be staring at their feet, anyway. Whatever is comfy and looks good. No one is going to wear anything really horrible, I'm confident in them
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They're wearing long dresses, so I don't care what they wear on their feet. I just want them comfy and ready to dance!!
ditto. i told them to get whatever they want (I said no white or metallic, but that kinda goes without saying anyway. LOL)
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i am debating this i am trying to find a good shoe that would fit all girls, its not easy.
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They all had to have silver shoes, any kind they wanted.
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I would never make my girls get dyeables. I told them to get gold strappy shoes...I really don't think people will be looking at their feet, and I think shoes are a personal thing....plus, they can wear them again since they can pick out whatever they want.
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Posted by MrsStefan
Hmm...this is my BMs/MOH dress....I would love for them to have matching shoe color but I think it might be too much to *** for them to pay for it and I CANT afford to buy them all. The dress is in Euro Wine
what abuot having them all get gold or bronze shoes? that would look nice with red.. or all silver or all black, wont see too much shoe anyway with a long dress?!?!
I am thinking of having them get ivory shoes so they dont have to dye them, they will have Light greenish dresses like a sage or celadon.
