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ARGH-Question about inviting ppl....

GsCM4EVA Posted:

ARGH-Question about inviting ppl....

franksgirl323 Posted:

Re: ARGH-Question about inviting ppl....

I would say if they were invited to the shower, they should be invited to the wedding.

Sorry...I know you weren't hoping to hear that.
GsCM4EVA Posted:

Re: ARGH-Question about inviting ppl....

Posted by franksgirl323

I would say if they were invited to the shower, they should be invited to the wedding.

Sorry...I know you weren't hoping to hear that.


I know...and what ***** is that the sister didnt come, but the mother did..w/HARDLY a gift...

I just think its stupid that I have to pay for them to go home....
Its like paying full price for them then.
reenielady Posted:

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I think since they were invited to your shower they should be invited to the wedding. Don't forget not everyone invited will come to the wedding.

SweetCin704 Posted:

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Jeanine, yea if they were at the shower they need to be invited to the wedding....but there's always hope. We invited almost 240 people & our latest count is 125!!!!!! (although we had a lot of OOT peeps)

pebbles Posted:

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If they were invited to the shower then they should be invited to the wedding.

Also if your list is at 234 you have to remember you will probably have 40-50 no's so then you would be in your range.
FallBride05 Posted:

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I agree, since they were invited to the shower, they should be invited to the wedding. I also have to say not to be discouraged though. We ended up with 498 people on our guest list. We thought we were going to end up with about 375 and in the end we had 279

ayadali Posted:

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Honestly, I think you should do whatever feels right to you and whatever will make you happy. I'm sure you can find a nice way to uninvite them -I called people and told them that I just didn't have the space when really I just didn't want them at my wedding. They may get upset but you know what - my day will go on and I'll probably be happier without them in the room.

Etiquette may dictate one thing but ultimately you have the final say. Your day, your way!
Sunrise813 Posted:

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We invited 250people and ended up with about 200, so just rememebr there will be some no's so don't cut it too close or you may not make your minimum.
DUCKS2001 Posted:

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Posted by franksgirl323

I would say if they were invited to the shower, they should be invited to the wedding.

Sorry...I know you weren't hoping to hear that.


I HAVE TO AGREE!
R&J0806 Posted:

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i think if they were invited to the shower, they should be invited to the wedding. My FMIL is inviting everyone under the sun so i know how you feel.
autumn Posted:

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Posted by DUCKS2001

Posted by franksgirl323

I would say if they were invited to the shower, they should be invited to the wedding.

Sorry...I know you weren't hoping to hear that.


I HAVE TO AGREE!


Same here (sorry)
kase21 Posted:

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I'm in the same boat. we started with 180 invited (engagement party) and the list is now up to about 260! And there are more people being added.

My Min is 150 and I can reasonably afford 150-185 guest or so. Here's hoping for a 50% yes response!

ETA: And yes, unfortunately everyone invited to the engagement party and bridal shower have to be invited to the wedding.

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