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As some of you already know that I do not

Nrauch8191 Posted:

As some of you already know that I do not

get along with my FMIL or havent spoke or seen her in about a year. I finally saw her on Saturday. My FBIL had a luau party. She arrived late and did not say one word to me. I was the bigger person and went over to say hello to her. She had the nerve to look at me and walk away. I tried once and that will be the only time.

Am I wrong????
TessMike621 Posted:

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what's her deal?

Nrauch8191 Posted:

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She is a *****. She said something uncalled for at a party we went to last year and I approached her about and said something to her in front of everyone. She feels i disrespected her. She claims that she will not come to the wedding. As i said before no sweat off myback but my FH is very upset. A few girls from here suggest that I suck it up and apologize. I tried. Didn't happen. she is upset because her baby moved out and moved in with me. She is a single parent and he always helped her at home. I took him away from her.

TessMike621 Posted:

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Damn this is a ****** situation to be in when you are getting married...She may be one of those people who take a long time to forgive someone who she felt disrespected her...a year is a long time though, especially if you apologized! if i were you i would either wait till she came around, or, as uncomfortable as it may sound, give her a call and stop by her house to speak with her personally, just the two of you...get her involved with the planning, maybe she's upset bc her son doesn't spend enough time with her anymore..anway, good luck with it all, in the end you should definitely see what to do about this because you wouldnt want this kind of stress

TessMike621 Posted:

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haha i didn't know liw blocked out curses with stars lol

soontoobemrsk Posted:

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Well, obviously there is something wrong with her. But...I wouldnt consider going over to her and saying hello an 'appology'. Just pointing this out. Good luck with the situation.

In truth, you shouldnt have confronted her in front of everyong, thats probably why she feels disrespected. You should have sat down with her and discussed your concerns in private! So you were wrong there, imo.

BUT, she hould forgive you at some point. A year is wayyyy too long to wait. And its horrible that she completely ignores you and wont even acknowledge you when you say hello.

JMHO

Good luck!
stinenandy2010 Posted:

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No one is gonna beat my FMIL, literally from the devil. However, she has said plenty of uncalled things and told people many lies and like you, its no sweat off my back. With this said, we remain civil. If she goes off I just ignore her, to her this is the worst thing I could do. FH has issues with her as well, and we just limit ourselves from her.

grrulz Posted:

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awwwwie!! what's wrong with her...you are not wrong at all...don't think you are...she'll get over it soon :)

Reymiliz Posted:

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im sorry but i wouldnt apologize .... if she dont wanna go then shes gonna miss out on her sons wedding ... then whose gonna feel bad u or her ?


ETA: i would just send her an invite when the wedding comes around so that she wont get the joy of saying that you didnt even invite her ...
grrulz Posted:

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Posted by Reymiliz

im sorry but i wouldnt apologize .... if she dont wanna go then shes gonna miss out on her sons wedding ... then whose gonna feel bad u or her ?


ETA: i would just send her an invite when the wedding comes around so that she wont get the joy of saying that you didnt even invite her ...



I agree....you should send her everything she deserves...!!! so she doesn't have a reason to talk!

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