ok... long story short... There's a BM that already paid for her dress.. The dresses has not come in as yet.. but some things happened the night of my shower on Saturday (after the shower ended) that I can not get over... how do I do this??
1- Ask her to step down and reimburse her for the dress, and I get stuck w/ the dress or -
2- Ask her to step down and tell her when the dress comes in I'll ship it to her?
TIA
***UPDATE***
Ok the EX-BM called me on Tuesday, saying that she was upset about Saturday night?!!! That there was sooo much negativity and what not.. so this was my opportunity to tell her how I felt about saturday night. I basically told her that it was HER who brought the drama and negativity that night... and I can take the risk of this happening th night of the Bach. Party and the night before the wedding and especially the day of the wedding. I went on to tell her that she embarassed me and I don't want to feel that I have baby sit everything that she says or does for the upcoming events She then went on to say that, that if this is how I feel then maybe she shouldn't be apart of the bridal party being that I can't trust her. Also, she will not be attending the wedding as a guest either (although I was still going to invite her to the wedding). She also said that when I can I should reimburse her for the dress asap... so I basically said will do.. I will send a check by Monday. it seems to me that this ex-bm is more mad than I am?? when it should be the other way around.
Seriously, I will definitely reevaluate my 'Friends' after this wedding is over. I'm so sick of people being fake. Claiming that they're happy and excited for you and then their true colors/feelings come out. The people who tell me that they're happy for me when deep down they're faking the funk... newsflash... I KNOW YOUR FAKING IT! so don't play me... I'm not dumb (ok maybe I am). Don't they know that I can see right through them???
missross
Posted:
Member since
Re: Asking a Bridesmaid to step down...***UPDATE***
Posted by christina&mike07
Posted by AlmostKulak
Goes to show you who your real friends are!!!
girl you are not lying! weddings brings out the best and the worst in people. i'm just happy that it's over and she is not in the wedding anymore.
You go Chrissy girl!!!!! I'm so proud of you tellin' that B---h B about herself!! When I read your post I was so upset cause I didn't realize that she was callin' any of us ho's for talkin' about our sex life, however, I do remember her saying how 'All Aries love sex....like we're tramps or somethin'! When you brought that thought back for me I started getting heated! Now I'm glad she's not comin' at all! She doesn't deserve to be there!
This is gonna be the best day of your life and I'm so glad that I will be there to share this moment in your life with you....and Mikey! I love you both so much!
Now enuff with this drama, let's celebrate!!!
missross
Posted:
Member since
Re: Asking a Bridesmaid to step down...***UPDATE***
Posted by charisma
God answers prays you couldnt decide how to ask her to step down and she did herself...you dont need the drama....
Amen to that!!! I knew she would step down on her own once Chrissy put her in her place. She has too much pride and can't admit when she's wrong! This is definitely for the best!
So glad we got rid of the bad energy!
Let the celebrating begin
njbound07
Posted:
Member since
Re: Asking a Bridesmaid to step down...***UPDATE***
Posted by missross
Posted by charisma
God answers prays you couldnt decide how to ask her to step down and she did herself...you dont need the drama....
Amen to that!!! I knew she would step down on her own once Chrissy put her in her place. She has too much pride and can't admit when she's wrong! This is definitely for the best!
So glad we got rid of the bad energy!
Let the celebrating begin
hey toots!
I couldn't let her get away with disrespecting my girls.. I just couldn't have that! she is too much.. do you remember when she was saying something about how she's a Southern Belle?? yet she was throwing f-bombs all night?? I'm sorry but a TRUE southern belle doesn't use foul language... can we say hypocrite??
billandme
Posted:
Member since
Re: Asking a Bridesmaid to step down...***UPDATE***
Posted by christina&mike07
Seriously, I will definitely reevaluate my 'Friends' after this wedding is over. I'm so sick of people being fake. Claiming that they're happy and excited for you and then their true colors/feelings come out. The people who tell me that they're happy for me when deep down they're faking the funk... newsflash... I KNOW YOUR FAKING IT! so don't play me... I'm not dumb (ok maybe I am). Don't they know that I can see right through them???
I totally agree with you! I've always said that you really TRULY see who your TRUE friends are in these type of situations..........I have found that unfortunately, jealousy gets in the way.....and TRUE friends should not be jealous in THAT way......Friends should be supportive.....in all situations
I'm sorry you've had to deal with this........try to keep your chin up and enjoy the rest of your planning. Obviously we don't know what happened at your Bridal Shower, but it was enough for you to want her removed.......and that has happened.......now you can put all of your extra energy into your planning........
njbound07
Posted:
Member since
Re: Asking a Bridesmaid to step down...***UPDATE***
Posted by billandme
Posted by christina&mike07
Seriously, I will definitely reevaluate my 'Friends' after this wedding is over. I'm so sick of people being fake. Claiming that they're happy and excited for you and then their true colors/feelings come out. The people who tell me that they're happy for me when deep down they're faking the funk... newsflash... I KNOW YOUR FAKING IT! so don't play me... I'm not dumb (ok maybe I am). Don't they know that I can see right through them???
I totally agree with you! I've always said that you really TRULY see who your TRUE friends are in these type of situations..........I have found that unfortunately, jealousy gets in the way.....and TRUE friends should not be jealous in THAT way......Friends should be supportive.....in all situations
I'm sorry you've had to deal with this........try to keep your chin up and enjoy the rest of your planning. Obviously we don't know what happened at your Bridal Shower, but it was enough for you to want her removed.......and that has happened.......now you can put all of your extra energy into your planning........
Amen to that! I sure enjoy the final weeks of my planning! 28 days left...until I return to my normal life!
