Asking for an honest opinion but not really wanting one
Original post by stargazerlily
So FH and I were at a bbq this weekend and we decided to ask his cousin to give her 'honest opinion' as a mom about our halloween wedding date. She said it was going to be really hard and her kids are upset and it is not the ideal situation. UM...I understand it does change typical halloween plans but there will be another one next year and I was aking her her honest opinion....but I did not expect her to actually be upset. What do you girls think about the halloween wedding? Other halloween brides get anything like this from their guests?
* my wedding is not a halloween theme, it's just happens to be on oct. 31st
chadjennwedding
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Re: Asking for an honest opinion but not really wanting one
C'mon its Halloween! Not Chrismas! Geez
stargazerlily
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Posted by Scarpak
I cant understand why everyone thinks she was rude telling her how she felt... you asked for her honest opinion. she gave it to you. I have a small child who would be upset if i told her she couldnt go trick or treating. Shes a kid, she doesnt get this stuff. Its also inconvenient because it is a holiday that many children look forward to. but its your wedding. You have to do what you want. you will NEVER please everyone. If its that big of a deal to her she can stay home
I didn't think she was rude, I was just suprised. And kids aren't invited so they can go trick or treating. And the reception isn't until 6:30 so she can go with them. That pretty much sounds like a regular halloween to me!
