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Asking the groomsmen

KayRA23 Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

How did your FH ask his groomsmen to be in the wedding? I'm trying to find an alcohol-free way to do this since a few are not big drinkers

Jsabbatino Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

Mine just asked with a handshake. But one of my best friends fiancées gave his guys cigars

ndc923 Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

I was going to suggest a cigar as well.

JaimeLin Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

I love that you're on liw now =). Mine just asked them, nothing special.

KayRA23 Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

Lol you got me addicted Jaime Lin I totally blame you :)

LibrarianJoyce724 Posted:

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Posted by Jsabbatino

Mine just asked with a handshake. But one of my best friends fiancées gave his guys cigars



FH did the same thing- a handshake lol
Vilardi82 Posted:

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We did a cigar and I attached them to these that I got on Pinterest they were only like $3 each.

kammy322 Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

FH just asked them, he didn't plan anything special.

rcotter90 Posted:

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Posted by Vilardi82

We did a cigar and I attached them to these that I got on Pinterest they were only like $3 each.



We did something similar to this and beer mugs with the guys names.
mab30 Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

We got them cute cards from Etsy saying 'Your service as a groomsmen is required' and also got them those tuxedo t-shirts and told them to respond with a selfie wearing the appropriate attire. They'll also be wearing them while getting ready on the wedding day. We put all of their selfie responses on our wedding website. We also sent Millennium Falcon chocolate covered oreos that we ordered from Etsy that were super cute!

killerqueen Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

I think mine just texted them all and asked, haha. Nothing formal at all. Guys are so low-key!

kellynicole91 Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

FH hasn't even asked his brother or my brother because he assumes they already know (which his brother already knows hes the best man). But when my brother comes home for Christmas I'm making FH at least just ask. His other friends he literally just asked, nothing special.

takav Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

Nothing special here - and also on my part for the bridesmaids - oops! It just feels like too much. I would rather pay for their hair/makeup than do so many little things :)

JessicaP07 Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

We just did it this weekend. I'm going to post pics of my e-party soon but basically for the guys we gave them all matching mason jars with mustaches on them, a personalized card asking them to be in the wedding & a cigar. We did a lot more for the girls but guys are a bit harder

BOUSA312 Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

We just asked them, handshake and that was pretty much it.

KayRA23 Posted:

Asking the groomsmen

Thanks everyone!!!

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