Attracted to other guys...

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Posted by MJDoc12

i think that just cause we are engaged/married girls, doesn't mean that we are going to NEVER have a single attraction to another man. and anyone who says they HAVE never or WILL ever have an attraction for another man on earth, is totally in denial!

think about it--when you swoon when Brad Pitt or Jake Gyllenhall is on the screen, it's cause you are ATTRACTED to him....just cause he's not in front of you, accessible, doesn't mean it isn't a genuine attraction.

we are human beings---and if we happen to find someone at work cute, or something, or are out at a bar and see a hunky guy and think 'Well he's hot!', i think its normal. now walking up to said hunk and jumping his bones...that's a different story.

i joke with FH that we both have our 'Top 5' list...5 celebrities that we are both allowed to f*** if the opportunity came up in real life! he's not jealous, nor am i!

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No youre right but i think but being 'attracted' to most of us didn't just see it as seeing someone and thinking hmmm ok he's cute and nothing more...more like when you are 'attracted' to someone and you want them, not that you will go after it but you wouldn't mind...I said personall i haven't felt like that...have i seen guys that were attractive yes, have i even wanted one of them or lusted after anyone-no...but thats just my experience as of now...I compare FH to guys and think hes better, just like many girls posted about.

Its not about jealousy either, i point out hott girls to fh, not a problem...the whole celebrity thing is different though

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Posted by MJDoc12

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Posted by MrsDaniRella

Melissa, is this your way of trying to tell me that you seriously have a thing for Vinny? B/c deep down I always had a feeling but now that I read this- it makes me realize how much you do lust for him (and he lusts for you)... uh oh!

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you and i both know that Vinny fights the urge to hump me when we hang out. the moment you turn around, he's like a dog in heat...saliva dripping boner popping horn dog!!!!!

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What can I say? This is true

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Posted by Pinkiegirll07

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Posted by MJDoc12

i joke with FH that we both have our 'Top 5' list...5 celebrities that we are both allowed to f*** if the opportunity came up in real life! he's not jealous, nor am i!

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FH and I joke about this too. We each get one 'out.'
Mine: Derek Jeter
His: Nicole Kidman (but according to him, old Nicole Kidman, not current Nicole Kidman!)

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he is a bit blah in person...DJ USED to be my favorite years ago tpp

Just cause I'm getting married doesn't mean I'm dead It's completely natural to look but don't touch! I have notice since I have got the ring people approach me more...go figure

They only other guy I have been attracted to was this guy from CSI Miami.. Hes a celebrity so it doesnt count...

ur FH is cute! lol no wonder your not attracted to other guys...hehe but so is minee..so im on the same boat as u

of course! I'm still human!

Being attracted to those of the opposite sex (or same sex, if you're gay) is a natural part of being a human being. There's nothing wrong with that! I've definitely seem people who have caught my eye, and maybe even flirted just a TEENY bit with another guy and thought 'hmmm... if I were single...'
But I'd never take it further than a meaningless flirtation, and I make sure the guy knows that. I love my FH, I don't want anybody else, but I can still look!

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Posted by Espo22

I personally haven't been attracted to anyone else

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Me neither. But everyone's different...im sure theres nothing wrong with her being attracted to other guys as long as she knows her boundaries and doesnt act on it. But me, personally, I dont even bother looking half the time because i have no interest.

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Posted by AeroJenn

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Posted by Espo22

I personally haven't been attracted to anyone else

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Me neither. But everyone's different...im sure theres nothing wrong with her being attracted to other guys as long as she knows her boundaries and doesnt act on it. But me, personally, I dont even bother looking half the time because i have no interest.

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yeah theres a big difference between thinking oh thats an attractive guy and ooo damn hes fine i wouldn't mind me some of that lol...I don't know whenever we go out, i always think Fh is cuter than the guys that are also out. But like you said to each their own

Well....if Johnny Depp asked me out, I'd have to say yes! LOL

Just teasing!!!

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Posted by Mrs.Ptobe

I have to honestly say that I do not even look at other men since I've been engaged... and I'm definitely not comfortable with men looking at me. I'm just so glad to have found the man for me and to me he is the most attractive man in the world.

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i agree

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Posted by Mrs.Ptobe

I have to honestly say that I do not even look at other men since I've been engaged... and I'm definitely not comfortable with men looking at me. I'm just so glad to have found the man for me and to me he is the most attractive man in the world.

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Yeah even when there are other attractive guys around, i still think eh Fh looks better