Attracted to other guys...

i was having an interesting convo w/ my girlfriends today... shes married and she was raving about how hot this guy is that she met lol... but thats it, clearly shes not gona implement on that...butt

i dont htink since ive been engaged...ive been 'attracted' to any other guy besides FH lol, sure theyre are cute/hot/sexy guys out there..i just dont pay any attention i guess... lol

but is it possible to be engaged and still be attracted to other guys, isnt it human nature? but its only wrong if you act on those feelings...

had a hugeee discussion w/ my crazy friends about it... was wondering what you girls think!

i have not ben attracted to other guys either. i dont have a reason to

LOL...LOL...(laughing because I have been and I seem to be in the minority!)

Attracted like he is hot...or attracted on an emotional level? I think there is a big difference..I can say I check guys out alot...but I would never do anything with them..I think it is human nature...and what makes it a marriage and a commitment is to not act on this impulses...

I believe we are all animalistic at the core of us :)

I see guys that are attractive and say yea if i was single maybe but not attractive in the sense of approaching/dreaming/wanting etc. Its really human nature to look.. been in discusion groups over this.

Most men look at other females in a attractive non approaching way. As your in a relationship longer it is more likely to happen then if you were just together for a few years.

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Posted by Marchbride07

LOL...LOL...(laughing because I have been and I seem to be in the minority!)

Attracted like he is hot...or attracted on an emotional level? I think there is a big difference..I can say I check guys out alot...but I would never do anything with them..I think it is human nature...and what makes it a marriage and a commitment is to not act on this impulses...

I believe we are all animalistic at the core of us :)

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I completly agree with you!
I've seen a guy and though DAMN! Or chatted with a guy who I thought 'well, when I was single..' but I'm not and I don't want to be!

ha ha I think it's natural...personally if I see a 'physically appealing' guy..I always say 'well hello' or 'Hachi Machi' (the critic ) FH knows I kid but we do it to each other we have eyes ..but I would never act upon..I <3 my

Defiently not attracted to anyone but FH-he is just so friggin good looking.

I am not attracted to anayone else...but I love Zepp and wouldnt look the other way anyway
But when you are married I think that it is normal to look at the opposit sex but not gawk! ha ha I mean I have a friend that looks at other guys. i mean maybe she has had a bad week with her husband. I know that we as people are so used to being on outr own and having the other person in our lives. Once we get married its not our own life anymore and some people have a really hard time with that transition.

I agree with most people who posted. I can find other men attractive and FH can find other women attractive. Doesn't mean we are going to be swingers!

I'm attracted to only one other man besides FH, and that's Johnny Depp!

I haven't been attracted to any other guys since I met FH. The funny thing is that in my previous relationships I had a wandering eye.

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Posted by Marchbride07

LOL...LOL...(laughing because I have been and I seem to be in the minority!)

Attracted like he is hot...or attracted on an emotional level? I think there is a big difference..I can say I check guys out alot...but I would never do anything with them..I think it is human nature...and what makes it a marriage and a commitment is to not act on this impulses...

I believe we are all animalistic at the core of us :)

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im w/ you

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Posted by Espo22

I personally haven't been attracted to anyone else

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Same here.... I think it is natural to think another guy may be handsome but anything else I can't see being possible.
Since FH it like my eyes are shut, I dont even give other guys a look not even to notice that they are good looking. I see that I am not alone
Does this mean I'm whipped?

Same here.... I think it is naturl to think another guy may be handsome but anything else I can't see being possible.

Not at all!