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Average cost of LI wedding

Original post by katiephoto

I just wanted to share this interesting article with everyone: 2013 Wedding Statistics

Apparently the average Long Island wedding costs $57,343!

My budget is in the $25,000 range (not including honeymoon and engagement ring), but I guess that’s nothing!
ypharmacy Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

I'm at 30k and that doesn't include the honeymoon, engagement ring or marriage license fee..idk how much that fee is yet..

gberti Posted:

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Posted by Vilardi82

Yea that is def the average lol it's crazy how much some things are. I originally thought that the wedding would cost 30,000..... Now it's more like 50,000...... Kinda makes me nauseous when I write it down lol



EXACTLY the same for me.. originally budgeted $30,000, now its probably a little over 50,000
gberti Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

that is including everything (wedding venue, vendors, rings & hopefully since its not planned yet- honeymoon) except for my engagement ring

kedjmay2015 Posted:

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Posted by ypharmacy

I'm at 30k and that doesn't include the honeymoon, engagement ring or marriage license fee..idk how much that fee is yet..



i think it is $40

https://www.health.ny.gov/publications/4210/
http://www.toh.li/marriage
mrzsoontobejames Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

Budgeted for 20k lol but then I think I'm going to come in at 30k

okellies Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

For just the wedding, I am on budget to spend less than $15,000. Majority of that is the venue and food. My sister (MOH) is a hairdresser and make up artist, so I'm getting that done for free. I have a co-worker who does DJing on the side. A family friend is more than likely going to take the photos. As for dress, I plan to keep it below $700. We are finding ways to cut it where we can. I believe it can be done :)

I originally wanted to spend less than 10k, but because of the things we wanted, I upped it to around 15k for everything.
cconaty94 Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

We are 9 days away and just about $36k for everything including honeymoon but not engagement ring. I originally thought $20k but I quickly passed that.

summerbridejen2015 Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

Our original budget was $6-10,000 returaunt venue, well venue changed lol..not including honeymoon with every detail(not engagement ring)about 20K.What hit us is my daughters sweet 16 is 4 months prior at about 16K so I can imagine if she didn't have that what we could have done more with our wedding...I didn't not get anything I wanted except video but maybe I would have done a few more smaller things such as a second photographer,added on a few extras to the DJ etc.

jaycee Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

I shared that statistic with my FH and he asked, if that's the average price, does that mean that there are a few million dollar weddings and most normal people spend $15k? :) We were horrified by how expensive everything was when we started planning, and right off the bat I had to decide, is it worth it for me to pay more to have exactly what I thought I wanted, or can we spend less and have it still be perfect because, hey, I'm marrying my perfect guy and our families will be there and that's what counts? :) We've definitely made lots of compromises, but none that I regret, and I think we're going to have a fantastic day/weekend for under $25k. But check with me in six weeks and we'll see if we've gone way over budget by then! :P

okellies Posted:

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Posted by jaycee

I shared that statistic with my FH and he asked, if that's the average price, does that mean that there are a few million dollar weddings and most normal people spend $15k? :)



This is true. There is a difference between mean average and median average.
katiephoto Posted:

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Posted by okellies

For just the wedding, I am on budget to spend less than $15,000. Majority of that is the venue and food. My sister (MOH) is a hairdresser and make up artist, so I'm getting that done for free. I have a co-worker who does DJing on the side. A family friend is more than likely going to take the photos. As for dress, I plan to keep it below $700. We are finding ways to cut it where we can. I believe it can be done :)

I originally wanted to spend less than 10k, but because of the things we wanted, I upped it to around 15k for everything.



That's amazing! And the Irish Coffee Cub is great so that will be well worth it!
RSPan14 Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

I'm in $35k deep. I have most of the major stuff covered but I havent even gotten hair, make up, accessories and bridal party gifts, honeymoon, and im not including my ring... ugh.

JaimeLin Posted:

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Posted by ypharmacy

I'm at 30k and that doesn't include the honeymoon, engagement ring or marriage license fee..idk how much that fee is yet..



I'm in the same boat
okellies Posted:

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Posted by katiephoto


Posted by okellies

For just the wedding, I am on budget to spend less than $15,000. Majority of that is the venue and food. My sister (MOH) is a hairdresser and make up artist, so I'm getting that done for free. I have a co-worker who does DJing on the side. A family friend is more than likely going to take the photos. As for dress, I plan to keep it below $700. We are finding ways to cut it where we can. I believe it can be done :)

I originally wanted to spend less than 10k, but because of the things we wanted, I upped it to around 15k for everything.



That's amazing! And the Irish Coffee Cub is great so that will be well worth it!



It is great! The package comes with great things, and some things I can take off or less money (the package comes with centerpieces, but I have a feeling it is on the lower end and I have an idea for my centerpieces that will be more expensive for a florist to do). I also only have a MOH and a Best Man. We don't plan on doing a limo, maybe a town car. Plus, the site is waiving the ceremony site fee (which was a big seal the deal for us).

We are realizing it is about the meaning of the day and everything else is extra :)
prsstar69 Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

This is my second wedding. First time around we spent $97,200 and that did not include my 19-day honeymoon to Dubai and Egypt OR my ering.

Now FH and I are learning from my previous mistakes at we are going to be just under 50k. Again, not including honeymoon to South Africa or ering.

We wanted to be at 40k, but it's really hard. I feel like we've cut a few corners already!
FutureMrsPonce Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

I thought I would be able to stay under 40k lol. We have a lil over 9mths no rings, limos, invitations, hair/makeup, gifts for wedding party of 30, rehearsal dinner and a bunch of small stuff. After crunching a few #'s we're looking around 75k, I hope!

StarIzInkd Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

Is it wrong to say I have no idea what our total is?! I may very well be sick if I figure it out. We had to take out a loan to do home improvements so we had a place to live and took out some extra for the wedding but then other things came up and we had already booked and would have been completely screwed so we had to take more which was not just for the wedding but for many life expenses. SO I really haven't figured it out.. I have been trying to spend as little as possible on things but now little tiny things are really adding up. UGH! I had it in my head that we would spend $20K and I'm sure we have doubled that. :( OUCHHHH

lilly2015 Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

We budget for $25k but I think we are going to be near $45K. Gives me a migraine just thinking about this!

NYCbride1 Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

I would have loved to spend no more than $25,000 but that turned out to be the cost of JUST THE VENUE. Everything is so expensive! With the music and photography, we are at around $36,000. It makes me sick, to be honest. I often wonder why I'm having a wedding like this!! It's tempting to just call it a day and elope... I'm just glad I'm not the only one that has this kind of issue.

prsstar69 Posted:

Average cost of LI wedding

I've found that the longer the engagement, the more time you have to add things to the wedding. Every little thing adds up...especially if you do a 'little thing' with every vendor!

The main issue is that my FH and I wouldn't be able to afford the wedding with a shorter engagement! We need the time to save. I think a lot of couples get caught in that boat as well.

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