Babies!!!!

lexi1890 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:37 PM

Babies!!!!

How long do you think you and FH will wait till you bring little ones into the picture???!!!

FH wants to have kids right away...he says he is getting too old (29) and I am not sure how I feel about a 'honeymoon' baby!

Espo22 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:38 PM

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hmmm see thats the problem, we're not that young either. When we get married I will be 28 and FH will be 29. But we don't want a baby right away. It would be nice to have 1 or 2 years to enjoy as newlyweds

truelove5803 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:39 PM

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Yeah, I think we are going to wait about 3 years. We have plenty of time...24yrs old at wedding time, and we want to enjoy each other.

MayBride08 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:40 PM

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We'll both be just shy of 27 when we get married, I don't want to even think about babies until I'm 30. I say 32, FH says 29, so maybe we'll compromise with 31

GinaBambina08 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:41 PM

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me and FH are planning on having ours after 5 years although I was thinking 3 years after the wedding...I would try to arrange it so that my babys birthday is either 1/11/11 or 11/11/11 or 1/1/11,etc. I think that would be soo cute... (i'm insane lololol!)

Snowflake08 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:42 PM

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i say, 'People plan and g-d laughs'

We are actually going to start trying a month before the wedding; never know how long it could take to get pregnant

DnellD809 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:43 PM

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We just want to wait till we are completely settled and can give a baby the BEST of everything!
We can't wait to have children!

MikeandJess Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:46 PM

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maybe start trying on the honeymoon (which we are doing a year after the wedding). I don't want to wait too long because it runs in my family to have fertility issues. Also, Fh is 5 years older than me and he kids around that he'll be too old to be chasing them and it'll be my job so I'd like to have children before I have to check him into a home.

lexi1890 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:46 PM

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Posted by Snowflake08

i say, 'People plan and g-d laughs'

We are actually going to start trying a month before the wedding; never know how long it could take to get pregnant

FH wants to begin before the wedding as well because he says the same thing. It's very true though because I fear that I won't be able to right away and if i wait too long then it just makes it much harder as you get older. I will be 26 and he will be 30 when we get married and he wants more then one so he wants to get started right away. He always tells me 'i dont want to be an old dad'.

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:46 PM

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We want to enjoy ourselves first (we don't live together) and then whatever happens, happens.

I don't want to wish for children (or 'try') b/c I'm terrified of not being able to have them. Honestly.

lexi1890 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:47 PM

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Posted by MikeandJess

maybe start trying on the honeymoon (which we are doing a year after the wedding). I don't want to wait too long because it runs in my family to have fertility issues. Also, Fh is 5 years older than me and he kids around that he'll be too old to be chasing them and it'll be my job so I'd like to have children before I have to check him into a home.

haha....i totally understand where you are coming from....same here. Not big of an age difference with us but i want 2 if not 3 kids and im afraid to waste my younger years.

Snowflake08 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:48 PM

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Posted by lexi1890

Posted by Snowflake08

i say, 'People plan and g-d laughs'

We are actually going to start trying a month before the wedding; never know how long it could take to get pregnant

FH wants to begin before the wedding as well because he says the same thing. It's very true though because I fear that I won't be able to right away and if i wait too long then it just makes it much harder as you get older. I will be 26 and he will be 30 when we get married and he wants more then one so he wants to get started right away. He always tells me 'i dont want to be an old dad'.

well, youre still very young - im much older and if i can avoid at least one amnio; i have to try for that!! im scared to death of the pain!!!

Kris10546 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:50 PM

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We will probably wait 2 years or so...we will be 26 when were married so 28-29 when we have our first child would be perfect. I still like to go out with friends for drinks and all and once babies are in the picture, drinking is out!

Soon2BMrsD Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:51 PM

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i say now but we have no money.... so ill prob go off bcp after the honeymoon and let nature take it from there! ive been dreaming of being a mommy since i was little i cant wait!!!

Mrs.D08 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:51 PM

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We are planning on becoming pregnant on our one year anniversary. I'll be 25,FH will be 30.

Espo22 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 01:51 PM

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yeah i am not going to sit there and try to plan exactly when we have it. I mean if it happens nothing we can do, and we'll be just as happy... I adore kids and wanted 4, until fh said maybe we should think about it lol, which hes right, its alot of money. Ill be honest, after were married i know it will be hard to wait to have kids, I am gonna try. But like i said, were not gonna plan exactly when to have it and we'll be happy either way