Babies!!!!

FutureMrs.T Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:17 PM

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WE get married November 2008, we are going to start trying in April/May 2009.

Kimbalina Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:19 PM

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No plans for kids.

MayBride08 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:22 PM

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honestly, this may sound bad, but I kind of want to wait till some of my friends start having babies. I'm one of the first to get married and I don't want to be the only one with kids. I think it will be much more fun if we have babies at similar times so we can go through things together and not feel isolated.

ant n tilde Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:25 PM

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

We want to enjoy ourselves first (we don't live together) and then whatever happens, happens.

I don't want to wish for children (or 'try') b/c I'm terrified of not being able to have them. Honestly.

i could have written this entire post myself. totally understand.

we dont live together so i want to enjoy that first - in a house not even in the apartment we will be staying in for a few years. . .

plus we have our first second and third anniversary vacations planned out

as for babies - i have NO reason to think it will be difficult to have a baby - we are both healthy and come from a family of 'oops!' babies . . . but it is my biggest fear. I think bc I have been on BC for so long. . . and spent so many nights praying that I WASN'T pregnant. . . i feel like i 'jinxed' myself in a way.

Fall Bride 2008 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:29 PM

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at least two-3 years after the wedding

MJDoc12 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:30 PM

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i'm hoping we wait about 2 yrs. before we start trying....but it might be longer. i'm a little apprehensive of pregnancy and childbirth!

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:30 PM

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Posted by ant n tilde
I think bc I have been on BC for so long. . . and spent so many nights praying that I WASN'T pregnant. . . i feel like i 'jinxed' myself in a way.

Oh. My. God. that is exactly it for me too... I thought I was completely insane. Thanks for posting this.

dancinmyazoff Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:32 PM

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Honeymoon babies are my favorite That's what we both decided, hopefully nature will agree! But until then we'll keep practicing

ant n tilde Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:36 PM

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

Posted by ant n tilde
I think bc I have been on BC for so long. . . and spent so many nights praying that I WASN'T pregnant. . . i feel like i 'jinxed' myself in a way.

Oh. My. God. that is exactly it for me too... I thought I was completely insane. Thanks for posting this.

thank YOU for writing about this first! the women in my family think i am nuts - especially since all of them have kids already!

LoveRocks Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:36 PM

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We plan on waiting about 3 years after the wedding to start trying. I would really like my first child by the time I'm 34-35 and another shortly after that, then I'm closed for business!

Mizzdimple Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:37 PM

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I want 8 children! and all boys hA...but thats a want. Im happy with whatever happens..

FH wants me to pop them out one by one. He wants to have children when he is young so that he can be around for grandchildren...we wanted to wait 2 years but i am not going on BC. Wahtever happens..happens

cherish83 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:37 PM

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When we get married i will be 25 and FH will be 24.. I would like to wait 2-3 years to have kids.. maybe try towards the end of the second year. I mean i cant wait to have a baby but i want to enjoy being married first

Mrs.D08 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:47 PM

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Kids always come unexpectedly.

failurebydsign Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:51 PM

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we were talking about a month before too..so we can be ready in a couple months

nmagel Posted: Mar 08, 2007 02:54 PM

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we'll start trying late summer/early fall after my March 08 wedding. I'll be 32 at my wedding turning 33 that july. FH will turn 40 in 6/08
so we need to hustle!

ShanonandSteve Posted: Mar 08, 2007 03:03 PM

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we have only spoke about having kids.. not how long after we get married.. so i guess we are going with the 'if it happens, it happens' method after the wedding.

jjk1007 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 03:05 PM

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We've talked about this and were hoping to be married at least a year before we start trying to have a baby. Buttttt...you never know!!

Espo22 Posted: Mar 08, 2007 03:09 PM

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Posted by ant n tilde

Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

We want to enjoy ourselves first (we don't live together) and then whatever happens, happens.

I don't want to wish for children (or 'try') b/c I'm terrified of not being able to have them. Honestly.

i could have written this entire post myself. totally understand.

we dont live together so i want to enjoy that first - in a house not even in the apartment we will be staying in for a few years. . .

plus we have our first second and third anniversary vacations planned out

as for babies - i have NO reason to think it will be difficult to have a baby - we are both healthy and come from a family of 'oops!' babies . . . but it is my biggest fear. I think bc I have been on BC for so long. . . and spent so many nights praying that I WASN'T pregnant. . . i feel like i 'jinxed' myself in a way.

i am scared too that i wont be able to have kids...don't know why, theres no real reason but i think its a fear for many women

MissMath Posted: Mar 08, 2007 03:59 PM

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After wedding we will leave the baby making decision in God's hands......so, whenever God blesses us!

Luvbsb4eva Posted: Mar 08, 2007 04:01 PM

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We're going to wait a couple of years... we want to enjoy being married for a while and I will just be starting my career as a pharmacist and want to be able to work full time for a while so I can pay back all my school loans.