baby talk

so im really bored and was just thinking bout life after the wedding and was thinking bout babies!

how soon after the wedding do you want to have a baby (if you want kids)?
how many do you want?
whats FH take on the subject?
how many of you girls already have kids or stb step children?


im thinking bout three years after start havin babies...i always said that i wanted to have them right away but i know its def not gunna happen..i def dont have the patience right now and prob wont anytime soon!! i want at least three if not more i loveee kids! Fh wants two and thinks between 1.5 and 2 yrs we should have one!

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Posted by angel1219eyez

how soon after the wedding do you want to have a baby (if you want kids)?
how many do you want?
whats FH take on the subject?
how many of you girls already have kids or stb step children?

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1. w/in a year... i'll be 30 1/2 by the time the wedding rolls around, and we'll have been together 8 years. Oh, and i can only imagine how long it will take after being on the pill for almost 15 years!!!

2. I'll take two

3. FH's take is that he needs to construct a bio-hazard suit to wear while changing diapers. Can't wait to see how quickly THAT goes out the window lol

4. no kids here

I think after the wedding we throw the condoms out and just let nature take its course... considering my (old) OBG told me my chances of getting pregnant are down to 50% (my left ovary had an infection and couldn't release an egg) so every other month i release one... but my new OBG told me that its cleared up...

I really want to start TRYING about a year or two after we're married..

FH wants to use condoms for 3-4 years then try then.

Yay baby talk!

I want to start after 2 years of being married, FH wants to start right away. FH and I still don't live together, which is why I want to wait. I want to enjoy married life for a little while. We're thinking 2-3 kids

We would like to start trying on the honeymoon as we're both in our 30's.
I would love (2) kids, he just wants (1).
I will be stepmom to (2) beautiful girls...

i really dont want children but then again thats today. who knows what i will wan tomorrow.
but fh really want to have one.

he has no idea what hes in for.
i do!!! i helped raise my neice for the first eight years of her life. taking care of a baby is hard!!!

this freakin guy didnt even want to wake up in the middle of the night to take care of a puppy and he wants a baby?!!!?!?

i really love our life how it is.
i guess im afraid the baby will change everything.
with my luck it will be a girl and that spells trouble!!

probably around 3-5 years afterwards. we want to travel and do some stuff before we settle down and have kids.

we want at MAX 4....probably stay more around 2

if i told FH tonight I wanted to get pregant he would totally be on board, he wants kids sooner then me.

We are definitely going to wait AT LEAST 3 years. We are both on the same page about this.
I want 4 kids... FH doesn't care, he'll do whatever I want.

i have 2 already but i want to more maybe lol fh is fine with 2 but he said maybe 1 more

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Posted by Rosalind_75

i really dont want children but then again thats today. who knows what i will wan tomorrow.
but fh really want to have one.

he has no idea what hes in for.
i do!!! i helped raise my neice for the first eight years of her life. taking care of a baby is hard!!!

this freakin guy didnt even want to wake up in the middle of the night to take care of a puppy and he wants a baby?!!!?!?

i really love our life how it is.
i guess im afraid the baby will change everything.
with my luck it will be a girl and that spells trouble!!

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You and your FH, sound EXACTLY like me and mine. I go back and forth on the baby issue everyday. I raised my brother who is 9 years younger than me. So, I understand completely.

I think after 1 1/2 years of marriage is a good time to start having children.

I would like to have three children, twins run in my family, so I hope to have one set of twins and then a second pregnancy. I would actually like a boy/girl twin set and either another girl or boy.

FH is fine with what I would like for kids; he helps take care of his nephew so he's very good with children. Sometimes he lets his nephew do things that aren't good but other than that he's good with him.

I think I want to start trying 6 months after the wedding
this is gonna be right after me turning 30 and FH is already in his 30's, so I think its about time
but it all depends on our financial situation and ability to buy our own apartment

I want 2. FH wants 2. perfect

1. I want to wait some time - But I will 30 when we get married and we have been together for over 5 years now . . . . . I think we are going to wait until I'm 32

2. If I could put in an order I would want 2 - one Bay and one girl

3. my FH loves kids - I think he wants them sooner them me

4. no kids here

we arent sure whether we want to start trying right away or wait a few months. i know we want to have them as young as possible (we will both have just turned 30).

i want 3 he wants 2. i gotta see how the first one turns out!

he is awesome with kids so i know it will be all good.

no step kids...

Ideally I would love to have kids as soon as now, but I did always dream of getting married first and then having my babies. so with that being said the night of the wedding I think we will do with out the condums and let nature take it's course!

FH says he doesn't want kids but that he will give in for me! I don't believe him, whenever my niece and nephew are around he's in LOVE....

I would like 2 FH says 1

No kids yet!

fh and i have always said no kids till we are 30 which would be about 3 1/2 years after the wedding....but lately (bc of spending time with my nephew and stuff) we are thinking maybe 2 years after the wedding.

we both want 2 kids...i would love a boy and a girl but obv it doesnt matter as long as they are healthy!

1 - We're on the fence in regards to kids. Some days we want them; most days we don't. If we decide to pop out any rugrats, it'll be probably in about 4 years or so. I'll be 32 and he'll be 34 at that point.

2- Again, most days...zero. Other days, two.

3 - He and I feel exactly the same...we waver on it a lot, for the same reasons.

4 - Nope, no kiddos here.