so im really bored and was just thinking bout life after the wedding and was thinking bout babies!
how soon after the wedding do you want to have a baby (if you want kids)? how many do you want? whats FH take on the subject? how many of you girls already have kids or stb step children?
im thinking bout three years after start havin babies...i always said that i wanted to have them right away but i know its def not gunna happen..i def dont have the patience right now and prob wont anytime soon!! i want at least three if not more i loveee kids! Fh wants two and thinks between 1.5 and 2 yrs we should have one!
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we will probably wait at least a year before we try. i guess we will see where we are financially at the time. I want to have my first kid preferably when i am 28 (i will be 26 when i'm married). FH wants 2 kids, both boys lol... i want at least 1 girl!
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i would like 2-3, 2 bio and 1 i'll adopt. I'd actually be ok adopting all and not being pregnant but FH says no lol. (maybe he should get pregnant and give birth lol)
We're going to start having kids about 2 years after we're married. We want a house first and i must be done with school by then.
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I want to start trying after being married ~2 years I think. FH already has a daughter (she'll be 7 1/2 when we get married). FH has full custody so we want to adjust to all being a family before we have more kids. I definitely want 2 more, I'd love 3 more but we have to be able to afford it. I really just want to have a baby right now, but FH keeps telling me he wants to 'do it right' this time (i.e. - get married THEN get pregnant lol) and we really should own a house before we get involved with more babies.
I want to have 2 boys...and then if we can have a 3rd I'd love it to be a little girl...since we'll be losing FSD not soon after the 3rd is born (to college and life *sniff*)
ETA: FH is completely on the same page as I am
iquel
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I want to wait at least 3-4 yrs after marriage we still pretty young. I would like to be about 28-29 years of age to have our first baby. I want to enjoy our marriage, living together, we would like to do lots of traveling and etc. I would like to have two no more, I am hoping for twins lol I could dream lol
FH would like to have a baby before he is 30, but I am not sure if I will be ready. And he really wants a boy to teach him how to play basketball. I always tell him take what you get because my father was dying for a boy and three attempts and ended up with three girls Three princess
So we are hoping for the pair a boy and a girl . We will see.
mosh424
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we will be waiting at least 2-3 years after we get married.
we would love to have 2
JillandJoe
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we go back and forth about when to try. FH ideally wants me to stop BC before the wedding so we can try for a honeymoon baby, but I don't know. I want a baby asap too, but i also want a house too. We have lived together for two years so being married won't really be any different then it is now
We both want 2-4 kids...
neither of us have kids now
JAAMS
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We're probably going to wait about 5 years after we get married-- so I'll be 29. I want to have 4; I want to adopt 1 and give birth to 3.
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We have been together for 6 years 5 months and we already have 3 kids
We go and back and forth with this all the time. I think we'll just see where life takes us. I think I am going to go off the pill right after the wedding and see what nature is made of. I'm 28 - so I don't want to wait too long - but I also don't want to wait 3 years and find out its harder to get pregnant than I expected...
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This is such a hot topic in our family right now. I don't have the best ovaries and we know this so we could just stop being so safe and let nature take its course. However, twins run in my family as well and that scares me although I'd rather get two kids from one pregnancy to be honest.
FH would be THRILLED to death if I went upstairs right htis second and said I'm pregnant. He watched his brother have a baby last year and cannot wait to be a daddy! I on the other hand...can wait. Not too late but definitely not rushing I want to enjoy out lives before we dedicate the next 20+ years to making someone else number one right now we are each other's number ones and that's just fine by us :) But he pushes a lil...and gets nowhere.
I've always known (crazy as I'll sound) that I'll have 2 boys and 1 girl. Don't ask me how I don't buy into psychics or ESP or anything but I've always just kinda known it's what will happen even though I've only ever wanted 2 kids...time will tell
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hmm lets see..ill be 23 when i get married...therefore, i dont want babies for atleast 3 years after the weddings...
FH wants kids like, ASAP...
I want like 2 kids, FH wants 4
ooooooo the conflicts lol
MrsDR2010
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We have a baby girl (6 mths old) and we are going to wait until she is 5 to have another one( I think). I want to finish my doctorate first.
FH wants 4 I could care less - Whatever God gives me- I was a 1st grade teacher so I kids anyway
I suggest waiting though and getting spending time with your husband before you have a baby. Cherish those precious moments. It also helps make your relationship stronger.
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Posted by angel1219eyez
how soon after the wedding do you want to have a baby (if you want kids)? how many do you want? whats FH take on the subject? how many of you girls already have kids or stb step children?
I would like to have kids after a year or two, but we'll prob. end up waiting longer than that (FH would rather wait 3-4 years). As far as number, i want ALOT but FH wants only 2. So that we'll have to see about. Neither of us have any kids yet.
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i want to have kids right away. i'll be 28 when i get married and i want one at least before i am 30.
i think i'll have just 1 or 2
FH told me we can have them whenever i want to. He already had 2 boys (that answers the next question) so he said whenever i am ready to have ours is fine
John already has 2 little boys ....4 and 51/2 so i will be a step mom in a few months
SummerBride10
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Posted by CloudNine
i want to have kids right away. i'll be 28 when i get married and i want one at least before i am 30.
i think i'll have just 1 or 2
FH told me we can have them whenever i want to. He already had 2 boys (that answers the next question) so he said whenever i am ready to have ours is fine
John already has 2 little boys ....4 and 51/2 so i will be a step mom in a few months
You forgot to mention his two boys are the cutest little boys on the planet!!!
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i told FH i want to start having kids in 3 years, so 2 years after our wedding
we want two kids, and i want them both before i am 30, i will be 27 in 3 years.. so that's a good age to start
fh agrees on the two kid part.. but when i say in 3 years he says no way... he wants to wait longer.. im sure he will lighten up to the idea LOL
no step kids on either end for us
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I want 3, he wants 2 kids.
I want to wait 2-3 years. He wants them now. It's funny, b/c he is terrified to hold a baby, yet he wants one!!!
However, I am terrified of not being about to get pregnant. Barely anyone in my family has naturally.
He always talks about how old he will be when they are 18. lol He will be almost 29(5 days shy) when we get married.
currently no step kids or kids
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Posted by SummerBride10
Posted by CloudNine
John already has 2 little boys ....4 and 51/2 so i will be a step mom in a few months
You forgot to mention his two boys are the cutest little boys on the planet!!!
I definitly agree!!!
The fact that I'll be 28 when I get married doesn't make me feel like I have to rush. I need to know that we will be able to live comfortably before even thinking about children.
When we do I would like to have two girls pretty close together...i love sisters!!!
FH is going to be AMAZING with our kids....personally the thought of children scare me to death...if FH would stay home and I could work I'd be so happy!!
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how soon after the wedding do you want to have a baby (if you want kids)? I will be 26 when we get married. Right now I am WAAAAAY too selfish to have children. I don't want to have children until I am totally ready to put them first. always. Maybe by the time I am 30...
how many do you want? I'd be happy with 1, but I think 2 would be perfect. Twins run in my family so I am nervous I will go for baby #2 and get a third one too! I want twins on the first pregancy!
whats FH take on the subject? He would be ready once I gave him the green light. His brothers and sisters have kids and he eats them up. He is also 5 years older than I am and he doesnt want to be an old man when they are born.
how many of you girls already have kids or stb step children? None here.
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FH and I cant wait to have kids, but I think we will have one year as newlyweds and then start trying. But if something happens before then, we are fine with that too ........ We want 3 or 4 kids !!
