bachelor parties????

my only rule is that the stripper can't go to a hotel room for a private show. That is when I think lines are crossed. I dont really want him to go to a strip club but I completely trust him, and know that if they do go to a club, a lap dance is 10 minutes and that is all.

I told one of the GM's there is a 'no wh0re' in the hotel room policy, and he agreed. One of his GM's is the type that would hire someone privately but I plan to talk with him as well in the near future.

of now, he is planning either AC for gambling or NYC for a nice dinner and drinks.

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Posted by GettingMarried13

I have to be the different one here- lo-l and say it would totally bother me. I know the strippers are only out for the money, and I totally trust my FH BUT I'm just not comfortable with it.

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I 100% agree. FH and I are doing a combined thing, so there is no drama with strippers and such.

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Posted by LaurenT

Its definitely a traditional thing that a lot of guys do..i wouldnt be upset..trust your guy..its fine! oh and the strippers dont want your honey just their money!

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hahah ITA

I don't know....I've never had a problem with strippers. FH would never do anything 'out of line.' For his BP last week, they went to strip clubs both nights. He said it was fun (and he had never been before...I told him he has to once in his life at least!)

There was no touching involved....totally ok with me.

I'm fine with him going to a strip club...I know it'll happen once or twice on the weekend he's away. We're also going to have our parties the same weekend, so I can be out at the same time. The way FH has put it is, at first yep, there are boobs but then it turns into a regular bar. He doesn't even really like to go! It's just a rite of passage I guess. I do have the no touching/lap dance rule but it'll have to be discussed again when he goes, because I'm sure his friends will pay for him to get a dance.

And uhhh what about strip clubs in Canada being more lenient? He's going to Montreal I think...

My sister in law loves to talk about her days as a lesbian before she met my bro-in-law and before her wedding she contacted FH & his step bro *demanding* that they pay for a stripper the night before the wedding. The way she was pushing the issue, it was totally some weird thing she wanted to get off on.

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Posted by SoontobeLT

And uhhh what about strip clubs in Canada being more lenient? He's going to Montreal I think...

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They wouldn't go into details. I have only been to 2 strip clubs here and they weren't full nudity. Maybe that's the difference. Or maybe more touching is allowed or maybe (hopefully) the groomsmen thought it was hilarious to tell me this. I was playing the conversation cool with them and they *may* have been trying to get a rise out of me. FH is from Buffalo, so strip clubs in Canada were a past time of theirs.

I am not okay with it at all. Celebrating 'your last night as a single man/woman' is non-sense. You both are in a commited relationship, engaged and headed toward marriage, hopefully. I also beleive touching is cheating. I am sure our men wouldn't want our butts, n boobs bouncing around on some guy's lap, so why is it okay for some girl to do that?

Neither of us have a desire to have a bachelor or bachelorette party. I rather just me and him go away and relax, before our big day =)

My fiance and I went to Montreal for a long weekend a few years back. After a few drinks we ventured into one of the strip clubs lol..Yes the girls walk around with not one thing on their bodies and go right up to you and beg to take you in the back for a lapdance..But let me tell you..These women are old, ugly, worn out and pretty over weight. Your fiance isn't going to want these girls anywhere near him. My fiance was grossed out just standing in there. Don't worry!! Strip clubs are over rated anyway. You should show him up. Take your girls to south beach and party it up

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Posted by mmorano88
These women are old, ugly, worn out and pretty over weight.

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Posted by mmorano88

My fiance and I went to Montreal for a long weekend a few years back. After a few drinks we ventured into one of the strip clubs lol..Yes the girls walk around with not one thing on their bodies and go right up to you and beg to take you in the back for a lapdance..But let me tell you..These women are old, ugly, worn out and pretty over weight. Your fiance isn't going to want these girls anywhere near him. My fiance was grossed out just standing in there. Don't worry!! Strip clubs are over rated anyway. You should show him up. Take your girls to south beach and party it up

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Hahaha, awesome. You're right!