Just curious..but what are your feelings on lap dances at a bachelor party? ok or not ok? Im ok with it as long as there is absolutely no touching involved...also how do you feel about private parties (in a hotel room, etc)...im totally against it..
well to be honest go and get drunk and **** faced that doesnt bother me.. but naked girls im just not comfy with.. FH knows my feelings and has insisted that his bachelor party with be at Gossips.. and im just NOT ok with it... maybe i will be but as of now.. NO
Posted by Bride 2 Be
Just curious..but what are your feelings on lap dances at a bachelor party? ok or not ok? Im ok with it as long as there is absolutely no touching involved...also how do you feel about private parties (in a hotel room, etc)...im totally against it..
Posted by LuvMyAlfonse
I'm not OK with it. I don't know why. But what I don't know won't hurt me.
So I'm hoping we do a joint bachelor/bachelorette party to Vegas.
Posted by Bride 2 Be
Posted by LuvMyAlfonse
I'm not OK with it. I don't know why. But what I don't know won't hurt me.
So I'm hoping we do a joint bachelor/bachelorette party to Vegas.
thats a cute idea!! i like a joint thing!
Posted by MPAS
My FH hates strip clubs, but I dont care if he goes to a strip club or if the GM drag him there for his bachelor party, its OK to have fun and a good time, my FH is not stupid and he know whats right from wrong. But its not the bachelor party to worry about, the FH's will be asking about the bachelorette party, the brides get to have their good clean fun too![]()
Posted by Espo22
Posted by MPAS
My FH hates strip clubs, but I dont care if he goes to a strip club or if the GM drag him there for his bachelor party, its OK to have fun and a good time, my FH is not stupid and he know whats right from wrong. But its not the bachelor party to worry about, the FH's will be asking about the bachelorette party, the brides get to have their good clean fun too![]()
yeah i trust him to go out now so ill trust him that night too...He used to go to strip clubs before we were together, and i allow him to go now and he wont...He had to go for a friends bachelor party but he said to me he feels its wrong to go if hes with me, so they went out to dinner and they went to the strip club after, before he even walked in he called me to come pick him up, and thats what i did.
With the bachelor party, i think im more worried about how much money hes going to gamble lol, he LOVES playing poker and has even played for 36 hours straight
Posted by Espo22
Posted by Bride 2 Be
Posted by LuvMyAlfonse
I'm not OK with it. I don't know why. But what I don't know won't hurt me.
So I'm hoping we do a joint bachelor/bachelorette party to Vegas.
thats a cute idea!! i like a joint thing!
oh i dont want that lol...not even bc of anything bad, i just want that time alone with my girls. During the whole planning and the parties, you have to split your time so much and the same will go for the wedding, so want to just spend that time with only them.
Posted by Espo22
Posted by MPAS
My FH hates strip clubs, but I dont care if he goes to a strip club or if the GM drag him there for his bachelor party, its OK to have fun and a good time, my FH is not stupid and he know whats right from wrong. But its not the bachelor party to worry about, the FH's will be asking about the bachelorette party, the brides get to have their good clean fun too![]()
yeah i trust him to go out now so ill trust him that night too...He used to go to strip clubs before we were together, and i allow him to go now and he wont...He had to go for a friends bachelor party but he said to me he feels its wrong to go if hes with me, so they went out to dinner and they went to the strip club after, before he even walked in he called me to come pick him up, and thats what i did.
With the bachelor party, i think im more worried about how much money hes going to gamble lol, he LOVES playing poker and has even played for 36 hours straight
I'm ok with the lap dance, or private party thing. I'm not ok with going away with the boys. To me it's not necessary to spend an 'overnight' with the fellas. He could stay out till 6 for all I care, but they'll be no bachelor party trips.
Posted by Snowflake08
Posted by Espo22
Posted by MPAS
My FH hates strip clubs, but I dont care if he goes to a strip club or if the GM drag him there for his bachelor party, its OK to have fun and a good time, my FH is not stupid and he know whats right from wrong. But its not the bachelor party to worry about, the FH's will be asking about the bachelorette party, the brides get to have their good clean fun too![]()
yeah i trust him to go out now so ill trust him that night too...He used to go to strip clubs before we were together, and i allow him to go now and he wont...He had to go for a friends bachelor party but he said to me he feels its wrong to go if hes with me, so they went out to dinner and they went to the strip club after, before he even walked in he called me to come pick him up, and thats what i did.
With the bachelor party, i think im more worried about how much money hes going to gamble lol, he LOVES playing poker and has even played for 36 hours straight
a man after my own heart denise - i can play that long too!!
Posted by Collweenie21
I'm ok with the lap dance, or private party thing. I'm not ok with going away with the boys. To me it's not necessary to spend an 'overnight' with the fellas. He could stay out till 6 for all I care, but they'll be no bachelor party trips.
Posted by Espo22
Posted by Snowflake08
Posted by Espo22
Posted by MPAS
My FH hates strip clubs, but I dont care if he goes to a strip club or if the GM drag him there for his bachelor party, its OK to have fun and a good time, my FH is not stupid and he know whats right from wrong. But its not the bachelor party to worry about, the FH's will be asking about the bachelorette party, the brides get to have their good clean fun too![]()
yeah i trust him to go out now so ill trust him that night too...He used to go to strip clubs before we were together, and i allow him to go now and he wont...He had to go for a friends bachelor party but he said to me he feels its wrong to go if hes with me, so they went out to dinner and they went to the strip club after, before he even walked in he called me to come pick him up, and thats what i did.
With the bachelor party, i think im more worried about how much money hes going to gamble lol, he LOVES playing poker and has even played for 36 hours straight
a man after my own heart denise - i can play that long too!!
its a great game, i love it too...i just wish i didnt mind losing it when i played lol...hahaha his dream is to play in the world series of poker, he said after the wedding if he can use $10,000 to enter it![]()
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It is gross, but the guys are gonna expect it. Thats one of the first thing FH BM started talking about after we got engaged lol.
