Is anyone else upset/nervous about your FH having one? I'm trying to push for a co-ed one so I'm not as upset. I had a bad experience with my ex (he cheated on me god knows how many times, mostly with strippers) and even though my FH is nothing like him, the idea of the strip club and VEGAS makes me really angry. His friends are constantly making fun of me because of my aniexty. The only one who is nice about it is the BM who is dating my MOH. Am I acting ridiculous or do I have every right to be upset?
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FH had his bachelor party and told me all of the dirty details. And I trust his word because he told me exactly what the strippers were doing. I know he got pretty good lap dances and witnessed pretty much PORN live. But I wanted him to be able to do this. I trust him and I know for a fact he would not cheat on me with some dirty stripper. Ive been with him 7 years and have never had any doubts in his fidelity. If I did, I wouldnt be with him. He had a wonderful time at his bachelor party and I didnt worry the least but about it.
where did your FH go? any place in NYC? b/c that is where FH will probably end up and it sounds like your FH had a good time!
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Posted by Songstress
FH had his bachelor party and told me all of the dirty details. And I trust his word because he told me exactly what the strippers were doing. I know he got pretty good lap dances and witnessed pretty much PORN live. But I wanted him to be able to do this. I trust him and I know for a fact he would not cheat on me with some dirty stripper. Ive been with him 7 years and have never had any doubts in his fidelity. If I did, I wouldnt be with him. He had a wonderful time at his bachelor party and I didnt worry the least but about it.
where did your FH go? any place in NYC? b/c that is where FH will probably end up and it sounds like your FH had a good time!
He went to AC with a bunch of friends and stayed in a suite at the Borgata. The Strippers put on a WIIIIILD show in the room. He had a GREAT time
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I understand your anxiety... I would feel the same way but luckily my FH is not a strip club kind of guy, and even if his friends take him to one I know I can trust him.. I dont like the idea of it! But I can trust him not to touch! ha...I like the idea of a co-ed party. I told my BM's that i want a party where we can go into the city and see a show, that is more my style!
Best of luck!
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FH's Best Man just contacted me like 5 seconds ago for our Limo company b/c he wants to start putting things together!!!!
I totally do not care what FH does but part of me is hoping that I will be busy the night of his party so i do not sit at home and think about it!!!
dannisayz
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Thank you for all of your help. I'll let you know what happens. FH is talking to BM this weekend about it.
MeaganAndJoeC
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I trust FH 100% in 9 yrs he has never done anything to make me not trust him.. He is going on his BP in 2 weeks with 22 guys.. TRUST HIM NOT ALL OF THE GUYS
