Bachelor Party/ Am I crazy??

My FH wants to do a weekend getaway thing.. his friends are all single, insane. I dont have any brothers or cousins or any of my guy people going to his b party and it makes me uncomfy + nervous??

i didnt have any family go to my dh bparty
i did know everyone who was going. in the end i know my man and know he likes to party at these types of events. i trust him.

every woman is different

do i think youre crazy......yes
but you do ask. lol

sorry
good luck

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Posted by Rosalind_75

i didnt have any family go to my dh bparty
i did know everyone who was going. in the end i know my man and know he likes to party at these types of events. i trust him.

every woman is different

do i think youre crazy......yes
but you do ask. lol

sorry
good luck

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LOL! Yes i trust him, He goes away all the time, we have a house in the poconos etc. I just hate strippers with a passion of the you know who LOL just wish i had a brother right now

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Posted by Bride in 2012

FH is probably going to Vegas. I trust him so I'm not really worried.

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Thats what he wanted but its too much $$ this year

My DH went to Atlantic City for the weekend with his friends for his bachelor party. It was planned by his single friends. It happened in the end that my brother & my sisters boyfriend ended up going but they didn't go to spy on my DH. My DH wanted them to be there so he invited them.
My DH goes away 3-4 times a year with his single guy friends. I completely trust him, as he trusts me. I never question what he does when he goes on vacation with is friends. When he gets home he tells me what they did & where they went.

Yeah ok..... Im half over it, I get jealous of strippers its my thing IDK lol.

My FH goes away alot, golf + camping every summer and fall- always with all guys. I trust him just really hate bachelor parties but I used to be really close with a bartender from a private party club so maybe im tainted lol

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Posted by anjelagain

Yeah ok..... Im half over it, I get jealous of strippers its my thing IDK lol.

My FH goes away alot, golf + camping every summer and fall- always with all guys. I trust him just really hate bachelor parties but I used to be really close with a bartender from a private party club so maybe im tainted lol

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Ur Not the only one...
My FH will nto go to Las vegas or AC BUT I do get jealous of strippers too... So i would have the same thoughts as u right now....
Everythign should be fine though, just talk to him, tell him wat u feel n think...

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by anjelagain

Yeah ok..... Im half over it, I get jealous of strippers its my thing IDK lol.

My FH goes away alot, golf + camping every summer and fall- always with all guys. I trust him just really hate bachelor parties but I used to be really close with a bartender from a private party club so maybe im tainted lol

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Ur Not the only one...
My FH will nto go to Las vegas or AC BUT I do get jealous of strippers too... So i would have the same thoughts as u right now....
Everythign should be fine though, just talk to him, tell him wat u feel n think...

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Thanks :P

I dont think youre crazy... you just need to not think about it... make sure youre distracted for as much of the time that hes gone...

what /when is your bach party?

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Posted by AngnShaun

I dont think youre crazy... you just need to not think about it... make sure youre distracted for as much of the time that hes gone...

what /when is your bach party?

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This is the only way hahah! I love that.

Its gonna be one of the last two weekends in august. We wanna do ft lauderdale W hotel for two days, if too many ppl cant go, im gonna do a weekend or even a night on FI

I know it sounds like, look what youre doing but im a loser ill be running around with a bride hat on all weekend haha.

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Posted by anjelagain

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Posted by AngnShaun

I dont think youre crazy... you just need to not think about it... make sure youre distracted for as much of the time that hes gone...

what /when is your bach party?

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This is the only way hahah! I love that.

Its gonna be one of the last two weekends in august. We wanna do ft lauderdale W hotel for two days, if too many ppl cant go, im gonna do a weekend or even a night on FI

I know it sounds like, look what youre doing but im a loser ill be running around with a bride hat on all weekend haha.

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my bachelorette was 50 of my nearest and dearest at a baseball game...

Shaun went to Ocean City with his friends for the weekend... i got a couple of hours and he got a whole weekend... lol

IMO trust has nothing to do with it... theres nothing pleasing about thinking about another woman rubbing her junk on your fiance... so i totally understand what youre feeling... but unfortunately you just have to deal with it by not thinking about it...

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Posted by bebita0830

I think the main factor is how much u trust ur FH, if u reaclly trust his judgement, nothing bad will happen, and also remember his friends will not do something he won't want to do. many GMs in my bridal party are single and they wanna go to a strip club and party like crazy but FH doesn't like that so they'll be going to dinner and shark fishing 'cause that's what FH wants to do

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Im sorry but i completely Disagree with u...
IF his friends are all into STRIP CLUBS and this is a bachelor party, there may be ONE who will b bringin one stripper or will take them to the strip club by surprise....
If they do a Surprise Bparty fo him, its hard to tell what are they going to do since its a 'surprise'...

So this is NOT a matter of only trustin ur FH.. its trustin Ur fh's friends too....

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by bebita0830

I think the main factor is how much u trust ur FH, if u reaclly trust his judgement, nothing bad will happen, and also remember his friends will not do something he won't want to do. many GMs in my bridal party are single and they wanna go to a strip club and party like crazy but FH doesn't like that so they'll be going to dinner and shark fishing 'cause that's what FH wants to do

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Im sorry but i completely Disagree with u...
IF his friends are all into STRIP CLUBS and this is a bachelor party, there may be ONE who will b bringin one stripper or will take them to the strip club by surprise....
If they do a Surprise Bparty fo him, its hard to tell what are they going to do since its a 'surprise'...

So this is NOT a matter of only trustin ur FH.. its trustin Ur fh's friends too....

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Thats my thing... His friends....

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by bebita0830

I think the main factor is how much u trust ur FH, if u reaclly trust his judgement, nothing bad will happen, and also remember his friends will not do something he won't want to do. many GMs in my bridal party are single and they wanna go to a strip club and party like crazy but FH doesn't like that so they'll be going to dinner and shark fishing 'cause that's what FH wants to do

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Im sorry but i completely Disagree with u...
IF his friends are all into STRIP CLUBS and this is a bachelor party, there may be ONE who will b bringin one stripper or will take them to the strip club by surprise....
If they do a Surprise Bparty fo him, its hard to tell what are they going to do since its a 'surprise'...

So this is NOT a matter of only trustin ur FH.. its trustin Ur fh's friends too....

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The bachelor party is not gonna be a surprise. I know this is gonna sound weird but I actually wanted FH and his friends to go to a strip club (since my girls will be doing that for me) and I told him it wouldn't bother me at all but they're insinting they won't be doing that.

But u're right, it might also have to do with his friends and how much they respect what FH wants to do

oh honey i am with you 10000%!!1 you are not crazy at all! FH is the first of his friends to get married although there are a few that are in relationships. He is going away with 27 people in July for 4 nights...i am already going insane.

What it comes down to is that i trust him 1000000% and know nothing will happen (i mean yes he will get blackout drunk for most of the time but other than that he will be fine) lol.

i havent decided if i want to hear from him while he is away or not. part of me wants to not know whats going on and i dont want to stress out if i dont hear from him.

basically look at it this way.. your fiance put the ring on yourrrr finger not those the girls who want their privates waving around inpublic for all to see. Truth is anytime anywhere someone could come up to your FH and proposition him.. you hubby to be is obviously marrying you for reasons he isnt going to find in any other girl

Maybe have your bach party the same day so your not sitting home and thinking what are those krazy boys up tooo