Bachelor Party/ Am I crazy??

Yeah just relax chica.....
TRUE he is marrying U...
TRUST shoudl always be there...
and I still think the friends have a lot to do with all of this, so hopefully he will talk to his friends =--) and then things will be great! =)

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Posted by monamiestephanie

ditto!

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Posted by LBUDA

You are getting married to this man....you should def trust him and not have an issue with him going away for the weekend.

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The issue is not him.. the issue is the friend that may get strippers....

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Posted by Thar1127

i dont think your crazy at all, to be honest i think bachelor parties have gotten out of hand and guys can get too crazy. like disgusting things going on, strippers, hookers--- why are these guys getting married if they want this stuff? I think its an old tradition that has become a horror for some brides, a co worker of mine cancled her wedding bc of what went down at a party. I think if you know ur FH and FH friends and feel comfortable with them then you should be fine. My FH is going sky diving, camping and paint balling-- haha all 3 things that i refuse to do

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I 10000000000000% agree with your entire paragraph.

I hate strippers with a passion and have already had this convo with the best man! Does that mean that there won't be any strippers? No. Does that mean another one of the guys can't hire a stripper to visit the hotel room? No. Is it possible that I never find out about it? Yes.

But what ca you do???? You can only voice your opinion, trust that nothing bad will happen, and keep yourself busy.

But seriously..it was never o.k. for some ***** to rub her junk on my man, sooooo why would it be o.k. for it to happen a month before the wedding???? I don't get guys! The whole last night out thing is just a big excuse.

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Posted by HeatherLynna

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Posted by Thar1127

i dont think your crazy at all, to be honest i think bachelor parties have gotten out of hand and guys can get too crazy. like disgusting things going on, strippers, hookers--- why are these guys getting married if they want this stuff? I think its an old tradition that has become a horror for some brides, a co worker of mine cancled her wedding bc of what went down at a party. I think if you know ur FH and FH friends and feel comfortable with them then you should be fine. My FH is going sky diving, camping and paint balling-- haha all 3 things that i refuse to do

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I 10000000000000% agree with your entire paragraph.

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well said!
This is what I think too....
Things have become worse..

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Posted by Bride2011

I hate strippers with a passion and have already had this convo with the best man! Does that mean that there won't be any strippers? No. Does that mean another one of the guys can't hire a stripper to visit the hotel room? No. Is it possible that I never find out about it? Yes.

But what ca you do???? You can only voice your opinion, trust that nothing bad will happen, and keep yourself busy.

But seriously..it was never o.k. for some ***** to rub her junk on my man, sooooo why would it be o.k. for it to happen a month before the wedding???? I don't get guys! The whole last night out thing is just a big excuse.

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Its the same thing wiht Woman who choose the stiper too....
Its just an EXCUSE to get a **** in their face.....
What the hell U mean its ur last day as single???
U were NOT single ever since U decided to say
'YES' to the guy/girl...... Once u decided to beocme someone's girlfriend/boyfriedn, ur not longer SINGLE,.... U cannot do the same things u would do if u were single...
but ppl dont get that... and still getting **** & **** in their faces!

Men are ridiculous!!!

Ok so ive just been pulling male friends out of my *** and i have like my cousins husband going etc.


Feel mucho better. I love this thread... Yes its so unfair, and god forbid a woman will say anything? We're 'crazy'