Bachelor Party Date Fight

Oct 12, 2009 09:33 AM

Here is the situation! We are having the Jack/Jill Shower the week before the wedding, because we have a lot of OOT guests that can only fly in for one week. So I figured we could have the shower and then after the shower the girls and guys would go their seperate ways to the bachelor/ette parties. So my FH said from the beginning that he wants to have the bachelor party about a month or 2 ahead, which I think is ridiculous. SO a couple of weeks ago we were at a famiy party and my cousin asked FH when the bachelor party was? When FH told him he would like to do it sometime in late january/early February even my cousin said that is crazy and agreed with my idea. So FH said, Ok that does make more sense. So we agreed, or so I thought. This Friday he goes out with his buddies (who I do not care for whatsoever, really shady guys) and then when he comes home and we were talking about the night he said that they discussed the bachelor party and said that it is going to be the 1st week of February and that because it is his bachelor party he should be able to decide when it is. Am I wrong to be mad with him about this or am I overreacting!!??