bad new from ireland!!

I wake up from my nap after working a terrible overnight shift at work and fh says i have got bad news. then he gets upset and scares the crap out of me. He says that my flower girl isnt comming from ireland. The mother is dating a controlling bf and he wont allow them to come to the unitied states. and the mom wont allow her to come with other family members (which i totally understand). So i dont know what i am going to do. FMIL says that one of FH cousins is comming is around the same age and she could step in... only problem is we have never met her. So i dont know how she would feel. Thanks for letting me vent. FH loved this flower girl they would constantly make each other laugh.

aw that stinks! I would let the other one step in but Ill keep my fingers crossed that theya re still able to come!

I'm sorry to hear that! I hope everything works out.

that stinks.....but you have a fill in!!!!!
Any little girl will be thrilled to be a FG!!!!!
it is more exciting for them, then the bride. I'm serious!!!
I had 2; and it was a highlight of their lives.
I was a flower girl when i was 7; I remember it in the same light as my own wedding.
You will have a flower girl!
I'm more sad for the little one who is going to miss out .

Come on! Like you really need this. Well hopefully everything will work out.

I am very sorry to hear that. I hope everything works out

sorrry, hope it all works outtt