band or DJ?

ok girls..
so If money wasnt an option what would you rather have at your wedding, a band or a DJ???

we went to the showcase at the INN and my dad fell in love with a band that was there (stages) and they were really good and had such a good vibe going. My dad likes them so much he offered to pay the difference of a DJ. I really loved teh band BUT I am worried that they will not have the same freedom and variety as a DJ would. What do you girls think? ?

I love DJ's

I love DJs-I want to hear the song the way I love it not the way someone wants to sing it, we went to a wedding in SC and they had hired a very well known band and they were horrid. I think it depends, I have heard that a band can really do an amazing job too and be a really great entertainment-i guess its just a matter of personal preference.

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Posted by PegaLega

I love DJs-I want to hear the song the way I love it not the way someone wants to sing it, we went to a wedding in SC and they had hired a very well known band and they were horrid. I think it depends, I have heard that a band can really do an amazing job too and be a really great entertainment-i guess its just a matter of personal preference.

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same for me. DJs are great and bands can be too. It's just a matter of preference.

One word of caution though with a band and you have to talk to them abt it, is how often they take a break and what happens when they do. At my friend's wedding last summer (FL, not in NY), her band took a break and there was nothing played--dead air, silence, nada. It was so uncomfortable. Make sure you know what you're getting into. GL!

I prefer DJs because like one bride said, I want to hear the song the way it was made and how I like it. Another thing to think about, a lot of bands are limited with what they can play. I mean usually they know a ton of songs and do play a variety, no biggie. But my friend was a little annoyed at her band because they didn't play a lot of songs on her song list, probably because they didn't know them. I mean I still had a great time and thought the band did a good job, but for my friend who was the bride, she was a bit annoyed. I don't think it ruined the night for her or anything. But I think this is something to consider.

Go with what you prefer and what you think will get you up and dancing.

I love djs bc fh and I are 25 and we like the newer popular music. Majority of the people attending our wedding also enjoy newer music. A dj allowed us to do both old and new music. Also Bands have a number of songs they will rehearse for your wedding. I want to be able to have any song played on demand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I perfer a band. i think it really steps up the affair and if you get a great band can be a lot of fun. I think the whole VIBE of a band is great. Most bands can play contempory hits anyways.

Agreed that you definately have to know what you are getting into and get recommendations!