Be Careful

Original post by FallBride2010

Feb 12, 2009 12:59 AM

It's so sad that people cant keep what's said on here confidential and instead do whatever it takes to start drama.

FH's sister just emailed him saying that someone informed her that I am talking crap about his family on here. I'll admit, I have vented some stuff...but really nothing I wouldnt say to them if they asked. And I was really just using this site to get opinions and vent my frustration w/o making FH nuts about it.

I guess that's impossible b/c some people have nothing better to do than start drama. I'd love to know who did it. My instincts tell me it's not a 2010 bride...but who knows.

Anyway...just a reminder...be careful

grrulz Posted: Feb 12, 2009 09:54 AM

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horrible....

Lsorrent Posted: Feb 12, 2009 09:56 AM

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I thought everyone left the petty drama crap behind in high school...........

JenBill61210 Posted: Feb 12, 2009 10:02 AM

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so sorry this happened to you... it just goes to show that you never know who may be reading!

kristi313 Posted: Feb 12, 2009 10:11 AM

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NW crashing - you have no idea how often this happens on here. there have actually been family members of other brides search the site specifically for a bride to find out if they had been 'bashing' them. i guess that's what you get when you post on a public forum. but either way it's still annoying!

Kimmypie143 Posted: Feb 12, 2009 10:14 AM

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and this is why I dont really post anymore. Bc nothing is private. ANYONE can see EVERYTHING you write even if they dont have a user name! I really dont like that. It already caused problems for me thats why i just reallu lurke and post when i feel its nothing thats personal

angelatp Posted: Feb 12, 2009 10:16 AM

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ugh, that's awful!!! Some people are just too darn nosy.

futureMrsJSL Posted: Feb 12, 2009 10:25 AM

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I'm sorry that happened to you but I am not sure if I get it. Is it your FH's family or just random people doing this? I hope it all works out for you though.

Kimmypie143 Posted: Feb 12, 2009 10:28 AM

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Posted by futureMrsJSL

I'm sorry that happened to you but I am not sure if I get it. Is it your FH's family or just random people doing this? I hope it all works out for you though.

Its amazing the amount of people who lurke on this site. I had co-workers lurking and i was venting about work and they told my boss everything. Needless to say when lay offs came around I was the first to go.

I've had family friends lurke and tell fh or FBIL stuff i've said

Its2Snappy Posted: Feb 12, 2009 10:33 AM

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I think it is really important to protect yourself. That is one of the pain reasons I hate posting pictures, and have my little tofu avatar. I also try not to say anything too personal.

FutureMrsKuehne Posted: Feb 12, 2009 10:41 AM

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i can't believe that this post is on here this morning!!!

i just had a dream the other day, that somehow my FSILs found out about one of my venting posts, and like FLIPPED OUT

when i woke up that day i decided i wasn't gonna vent about family or friends anymore LOL

too crazy to see it really happen!

im glad that your FH didn't flip or anything though, that would have made the situation so much more difficult!

deanna225 Posted: Feb 12, 2009 11:10 AM

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thats crazy, sorry this happened to u

FallBride2010 Posted: Feb 12, 2009 12:05 PM

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

i can't believe that this post is on here this morning!!!

i just had a dream the other day, that somehow my FSILs found out about one of my venting posts, and like FLIPPED OUT

when i woke up that day i decided i wasn't gonna vent about family or friends anymore LOL

too crazy to see it really happen!

im glad that your FH didn't flip or anything though, that would have made the situation so much more difficult!

Craziness! Hopefully they noticed that I vented aboiut my own family, too! So i'm not just going out of my way to talk about them. Not to mention, I didnt say anything private...just that they dont like me! They make it known to everyone...why cant i??? : )

Mrs. Bernabe Posted: Feb 12, 2009 01:02 PM

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NW-Crashing. So sorry to hear people can try to start drama. Hopefully you and FH did not argue bc of this. Some people just have nothing else better to do.

FallBride2010 Posted: Feb 12, 2009 03:45 PM

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Posted by futureMrsJSL

I'm sorry that happened to you but I am not sure if I get it. Is it your FH's family or just random people doing this? I hope it all works out for you though.

Someone told her that I was talking about them. Must be someone on the site or someone looking for info. I dont think I know one person on here...so must be someone that knows FH