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been very upset lately...long

Original post by kimnsteve

ok girls i have been trying to keep this in for awhile to see if things would get better but they have only gotten worse....for the past month my FH and I have done nothing but fought ...and not just like little stupid fights ...i cant figure what they heck i am doing wrong ....i know has a lot to do with the fact that he had OCD and if something is out of place in our house he flips...and i am totally the opposite...we havent spent any time together nor have we gone put i over a month...he totally blew off our 7 year anniversary last month ( he told me he was taking me out and then that night he told me he was too tired and then had his neice come over so i could babysit her!)
i am thinking about moving back home ...but i know if i do that it had to be final...cant go back...i cannot have him keep coming in and out of my life whenever he feels like being nice to me
he hasnt said to words about the wedding ...all he does is complain about me ...that i do nothing for him...helllooo i work full time in manhattan ...dont get home til 7pm and then go to the gym afetr that ...where does making dinner every night fit itn?????
i just dont know ...i was hoping that some of u girls had some advice
sorry this is so long i am just so upset i have spent the entire weekend in my house crying ...i am just so sick to my stomach about all of this

TIA
Soon2BMrsD Posted:

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amen for ripping his clothes off... sex gets men to talk! its kinda like u do soemthing for them (even tho theres soemthing in it for u) they will do something for u in return.

im really sorry hes being so stubborn but maybe him working alot is better it gives u both some time to cool down. and i agree with an earlier post that it could be that you both arent used to being in the house together. that is why i insist on living with FH for a year before we get married. We both come from two different families and he is used to his mom not working a job ever and being home to make dinner every night and my parents have worked since i was in elementary school. so its going to be hard to adjust since i work.

Def. go out to dinner make the effort to take him out and try and bring it up there so that u wont scream at each other. FH and i do this once a week its like out vent sessions cuz we both get mad fast and end up yelling.. this prevents the yelling!

Good luck FM me if u need to vent or anyhting!
kimnsteve Posted:

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i couldnt have gotten thorugh this if it wasnt for u girls !here's a lil something just to say thank you

Poem Title: ThankYou!

There is no way
I could repay you.
For the kindness
you have spent.
There is no gift
I could give to you,
too let you know
just how much it
truly meant.
For all the things
large or small
that you so unselfishlessly do.
Please know that
you have my deepest appreciation.
'You girls are Angels',
Thankyou!
AMGBride2008 Posted:

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Soon2BMrsD Posted:

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how cute are u!!!!


just returning the good advice u give me!
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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aw thats sooooo adorable...Hope everything works out!
JeanineP2B Posted:

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Kim, what a sweet poem! I'm for ya!
TheFutureMrsM Posted:

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keep us posted

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