Posted by rdubs
The BEST part is when one of the bridesmaids you don't even get along with write you this after the bride and everyone has already picked the date (because we can only get a house in Hamptons the weekend after Labor Day). The reason this bridesmaid can't go is because its her 5 year old NEPHEW'S birthday:
'I'm sending this to you bc I don't want elizabeth to have any added stress. But the fact is that I'm quite upset about the bach party bc I really wanted to be there for Elizabeth. But since you made it more about saving money and less about having all her friends there I can't go. And only had one weekend that I have prior commitments. And I would be one of maybe 2 that would actually have to fly thus spending even more money! And I would willingly. Do I rank that low on the list to not have taken time to reconsider?'
Seriously? Can I just be demoted? I'm not even responding to her....
I guess I kinda demanded what I want for my Bparty... i said I want to go to a Mets/Yankees game and thats what were doing...
Posted by rdubs
The BEST part is when one of the bridesmaids you don't even get along with write you this after the bride and everyone has already picked the date (because we can only get a house in Hamptons the weekend after Labor Day). The reason this bridesmaid can't go is because its her 5 year old NEPHEW'S birthday:
'I'm sending this to you bc I don't want elizabeth to have any added stress. But the fact is that I'm quite upset about the bach party bc I really wanted to be there for Elizabeth. But since you made it more about saving money and less about having all her friends there I can't go. And only had one weekend that I have prior commitments. And I would be one of maybe 2 that would actually have to fly thus spending even more money! And I would willingly. Do I rank that low on the list to not have taken time to reconsider?'
Seriously? Can I just be demoted? I'm not even responding to her....
Posted by rdubs
Posted by AngnShaun
I guess I kinda demanded what I want for my Bparty... i said I want to go to a Mets/Yankees game and thats what were doing...
You aren't demanding a house in the Hamptons with a pool. VERY different.
So I'm having trouble deciding what to do...the bridesmaid asked me NOT to talk to Elizabeth so I'm considering handling this myself and responding in the most adult way possible and not be as rude as she was in my e-mail.....
