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Being mean and not getting caught? Suggestions Please

alina Posted:

Being mean and not getting caught? Suggestions Please

A coworker of mine and I mutually dislike (or hate) each other. Luckily she is leaving the company as of July!!!

She maintains sort of a diary website, which I found via 'google' and her name, and there she has on few occasions talked trash about me... In the most discusting and unfair way!!! And the website allows guestbook style entries for each message!!!

I was thinking of possibly posting a reply to one of her 'mean' diary entries and possibly humiliating her in front of any of her friends that would be reading the little guestbook tab...

What do you think? Too childish or go for it?

Edited to add that I would only do so after she has quit (i.e. left the company) and only from a public computer...
Misty Posted:

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I'm an evil b@#$%$ to people who sc#@ with me. I say go for it.
dkga1026 Posted:

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OOOH! I'd like to think I'd take the higher road, but I think I might go for it if I really hated her and she said bad things about me!
MrsTC Posted:

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LOL

on one hand, I would say GO for it! But on the other hand, I would want to be the 'better person'. How mean was this stuff? If it was really bad I would do it! If she found out it was you, would she retaliate?
Samanthas Mom Posted:

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I wouldnt bother to sink to her level, but thats just me
ask ms. shamma what to do!

besides, if you ignore her you will be the better person
shamma Posted:

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Alina, no one can hurt with things you already know about yourself, so unless those things are wrong you do not have to justify it. If they are right then you already know them. Oh well her loss. You must be mighty important to her for her to dedicate this much of her life to you. Don't sweat it sweetie. Don't stoop to her level.
Sonicstef Posted:

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I wouldnt say anything. You both dislike each other and this little web diary is her own personal thing. Just like you might post on her how you dont like her, its not that much different if you ask me.

You never know how you are going to have to deal with this women in the future, particularily if she is in your industry.

I would be the 'bigger' person and ignore it.
Samanthas Mom Posted:

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futuremrsT posting to be the better person at the same time as me
Samanthas Mom Posted:

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shamma! OMG Now you are realllllly scaring me
look at the time of our posts and what we said
mishandgerard Posted:

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I edited this post due to what shamma wrote, because I agree with her.

alina Posted:

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Stef, she is leaving finance and going into advertizing (can you see me doing the 'happy dance')

shamma Posted:

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Tammy I am taking a break from you.
alina Posted:

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Shamma, what she says is not true!!! It feels the same way as if you found out that someone talked dirty behind your back...

MrsTC Posted:

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LOL tammy

Alina do you know what agency? FM me if you want....maybe she will be the next fashion of the day nightmare at my agency!
Sonicstef Posted:

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Even if she says she is leaving, she could always come back.

I could tell you stories about how people burned bridges with someone they neve rthought they would see again and in 5 years they were face to face with this person in a really uncomfortable situation.
alina Posted:

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If she comes back, I am gonna leave!!! I sort of knew she was looking!!! She better not come back!!!

anna Posted:

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A crumb on the ground can be a better person than this girl ! In some cases, theres a difference between 'being the bigger person' and 'being a doormat'.. It just depends with each case.
For me, it would depend on what she wrote, how bad is it ? and if its available to be viewed online, its not so 'personal' after all, and she's asking for viewers to sign her guestbook... did she fwd it to people, or did you find out about it on the side?
if she fwdd it around, and its an open forum type thing. ahh, sign it, what the heck

otherwise, shes not worth your time... tough one to call, id have to know the people and 'be part of' the story to give my true opinion.
MarcellaBella Posted:

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maybe it wouldn't be as bad if you got someone else to rip her a new a55hole?
alina Posted:

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Stef, you mean these people met again in a non-employment kind of way? Or more like a 'borrower/lender' thing, where they were on opposite sides? Could they have easily dismissed themselves of the situation?

anna Posted:

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obviously this girl is not afraid of meeting you again in the future and being in a tough situation. if she is publicly badmouthing you, it doesnt matter if she were your boss next month, you tell her where to go !

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