The best man in our wedding, FH's best friend backed out of the wedding party and the wedding all together.
Apparently he thought our wedding was 0910/10 so he booked a trip to Japan to visit his grandparent's graves.
FH is super pissed and disappointed.
I don't know how to make it better....
with 67 days left he's got to pick someone else :/
Oh I also forgot to mention one of my brides maids had a major mishap a few weeks ago. She fell down some stairs and broke one ankle and fractured the other. We are hoping she'll be ok by the wedding now too.
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So let me get this straight: your bridesmaid seriously injured herself in a fall and you're upset that she won't be able to go to your shower and may be feeling residual effects of her injuries at your wedding.
Is that correct?
I'm upset that she may not be there for either. It's a possibility and it bothers me since she is one of my closest friends. Not having her at such important events is something I didn't think would happen. But we are just waiting to see how she is the week of the wedding, I told her she can make the call.
We were thinking of just having all our GM & BM sitting by our sides during the ceremony to give a little break to the injured BM without making her stand out.
But of course it's all about what she's feeling up to & what her doctor says. That's most important.
Yeah, that does ****. Hopefully she heals up, but if not I'm sure you will find some way to make her a part of the festivities. I know I wouldn't want to miss something like that if I were injured.
Spring143
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that stinks
FutureMrsSoltan
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emc282rjm
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I don't really have a solution, just wanted to send
JenBill61210
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I know how you feel. It happened to us as well (with a BM and a GM) 3 weeks to the wedding... but dont worry it will all work out. The day of all that will be important is you and FH, and the family and friends surrounding you!
