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Black tie Optional

nvrdull Posted:

Black tie Optional

A friend is getting married at the Garden CIty Hotel....and it is going to be black tie optional. Am I supposed to wear a black dress or just a fancy dress in any color?

Thanks
JenNeen Posted:

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You don't have to wear black. Typically you would wear a full length dress to a black tie.

ssdbk Posted:

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Any color!!

BlondeJD Posted:

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A dress in any color is fine. You could wear either floor length or a very nice cocktail dress (knee length) to a black tie optional wedding.

Goldi1021 Posted:

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Any color - except white of course!

nvrdull Posted:

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Thanks!

Where to start looking?
Goldi1021 Posted:

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It depends on how much you want to spend. If you want to go easy on your pocketbook, you can go to Filene's basement. I have found 2 Ralph Lauren gowns there and was happy. You could also goto Lord and Taylor - they have awesome sales. If money is not an issue, try Nordstrom Couture department. Good Luck.

jaclyncalderon Posted:

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This whole black tie optional thing drives me crazy...there have beena bunch off posts of people wanting to put that on their invitation...Personally I htink you either have a Black Tie wedding or not because for me if I saw the 'optional' I would feel bad not wearing black tie....JMO

newnybride2be Posted:

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Posted by jaclyncalderon

This whole black tie optional thing drives me crazy...there have beena bunch off posts of people wanting to put that on their invitation...Personally I htink you either have a Black Tie wedding or not because for me if I saw the 'optional' I would feel bad not wearing black tie....JMO



That is soo true, why bother put optional?
12-3Princess Posted:

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i think the reason people put black tie optional is b/c it's asking a lot to have a black tie wedding. I mean, black tie optional just means, if you have a tux, wear it. If you don't, then wear your best suit.

I think it's fine.
RedHead Posted:

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Posted by jaclyncalderon

This whole black tie optional thing drives me crazy...there have beena bunch off posts of people wanting to put that on their invitation...Personally I htink you either have a Black Tie wedding or not because for me if I saw the 'optional' I would feel bad not wearing black tie....JMO



SHE isn't asking if she should put it on her invitation...

SHE IS ASKING WHAT TO WEAR TO ONE!

I say you can wear any color

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