Black Tie Optional?

Is anyone having a black tie or black tie optional wedding?

My mother thinks mine should be black tie optional. I'm not really sure how I feel about it. I just worry about it being off-putting to some guests. Any thoughts?


On a completely unrelated note, I can't remember who it was, but whoever suggested OLV for a church, I cannot thank you enough! I booked there this week after hitting all kinds of road blocks at other churches! :)