Posted by christophersgirl![]()
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it's ok, she'll still be there on your wedding day right?
is there anyway you can have her still participate and not be a BM? like a reader or honorary bm or something?
Look on the bright side, at least she told you far enough in advance that you can find someone else... imagine if she decided to tell you only a few months before the wedding.
Sorry to hear it, but maybe her financial situation may change. She's got time, maybe things will work out.
That stinks. Did you let her know that it's still far away, and that she'll only have to buy the dress?
Posted by RadiantBride
Sorry to hear that. Better that she told you now then later on. The economy is tough right now and when you think about it its not only the dress. She would need money for dress, shoes, hair and makeup, shower, bachlorette. Its better that although you are disappointed she told you from now and not closer to your wedding.
ETS: Wait I just realized you are getting married March '10 not '09. ummm she has enough time to save from now until then. But everyone's finances and priorities are different.![]()
Posted by Its2Snappy
That stinks. Did you let her know that it's still far away, and that she'll only have to buy the dress?
Posted by EsquireBride
Look on the bright side, at least she told you far enough in advance that you can find someone else... imagine if she decided to tell you only a few months before the wedding.
Posted by RitasEngaged
Posted by EsquireBride
Look on the bright side, at least she told you far enough in advance that you can find someone else... imagine if she decided to tell you only a few months before the wedding.
I wish i had someone else to ask![]()
Posted by christophersgirl
Posted by RitasEngaged
Posted by EsquireBride
Look on the bright side, at least she told you far enough in advance that you can find someone else... imagine if she decided to tell you only a few months before the wedding.
I wish i had someone else to ask![]()
rita i've never met you in person but i will take one for the team and volunteer myself!![]()
but anyways, maybe its a blessing in disguise she didn't agree to be your bm, try not to take it too hard on yourself, its definitely not you, it's her![]()
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Posted by RitasEngaged
Posted by christophersgirl
Posted by RitasEngaged
Posted by EsquireBride
Look on the bright side, at least she told you far enough in advance that you can find someone else... imagine if she decided to tell you only a few months before the wedding.
I wish i had someone else to ask![]()
rita i've never met you in person but i will take one for the team and volunteer myself!![]()
but anyways, maybe its a blessing in disguise she didn't agree to be your bm, try not to take it too hard on yourself, its definitely not you, it's her![]()
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Aww thanks - I may take you up on that LOL
Posted by RedsBride
Awww Rita, i'm sooo sorrythat stinks. I can't believe that happened but better now than later like the other girls said. Are you guys really close? Maybe talk to her about it and tell her how you feel.
I am so sorry to hear this. On the positive side, at least shes being honest so early on that you can find a replacement, imagine she waited till right before the wedding
Posted by RitasEngaged
Posted by RedsBride
Awww Rita, i'm sooo sorrythat stinks. I can't believe that happened but better now than later like the other girls said. Are you guys really close? Maybe talk to her about it and tell her how you feel.
we are close she is practically my sister - she is my sister best friend since childhood. I feel like at this point I don't want to have a talk to her because i don't want to guilt her into being my BM
