So i have been looking for dresses for my BM and trying to fugure out how to customize for my MOH and this is what i found and i think its perfect! Im not into the 'fru fru frilly willy' stuff that every one hates but never says anything because they are just good friends. Any way i have been showing it to the girls who all say 'ooohs and ahhhs' but i when i showed it to my FSIL my FMIL was there (big mistake) and made the most horrified face. shes UBER religous, even though my FH and i arent, and she says they are in appropriate to sexy, not traditional. Shes already 'not happy' that we decided to get married at the RH instead of her chruch. What should i do? To be quite honest all my BM's are very curvacious (think beyonce on her day off) and even if i put them in trash bags she would probably think it was too sexy.
Stef08
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hot dress! But your girls would definatlly have to be thin to pull the 'sexy' look off. If one of them is too busty it could look not so sexy.
SAMORY
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VERY SEXY JUST GET A SHAWL if you think it's to much. I like it.
queenbean
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looks more appropriate for the honeymoon if you know what I mean
gabbie83
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my sister (my MOH) would looooveee that dress as a BM> Both my sisters were giving me a hard time about it because they wanted somethign sexxxy .... well excuse me but its my day and i will have things my way therefore you're wearing cute tea length dresses, im not about to have my bm dresses in Black Sexy Dresses like any other woman can wear to the wedding. (my opinion only of course) MY point is - its your wedding, you do whatever puts a smile on your face. My mom and fmil have comments all the time. My mom didnt like my invites. Too bad. FMIL said something about GM tuxs. Ok they can have their opinions but ultimately its YOUR day.
GinaZ
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i like the dress a lot! And I think its fine for the wedding as long as the person wearing it is truly comfortable in it.
gettinghizitched
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I love the dress but if I was to get those of my BMs to wear don't think that they would wear them. JMO.
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it depends on ur BM i would think, you might also be able to compromise and have a little jacket for the ceremony to be covered and more 'traditional' and then they can take it off :)
JTsGal829
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I LOVE that dress.. i was looking at it for my MOH. It's def. sexy but i think it's sexy in a classic way!!! If you love it then i say go for it!!!!
Toucan311
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IMO those dresses are going to draw some attention - some positive, some negative. Why take anything away from you? I'd go with something more demure and simple.
beachbum05
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If you're getting married in a church....ehhhh
Don't get me wrong - I LOVEEEEE the dress. It's HOT.
But I agree with Denise. If any of your BMs have big boobs this is NOT the right dress for them. I don't know how I'd keep the puppies holstered in that dress!
Soon2beAlberti
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those dresses are AMAZINGGGGGGG
meli722
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i love them, i dont think theyre too sexy....
dannisayz
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Personally, I don't like the dress. I think it looks more like a prom dress, rather than a BM dress. Just my own thoughts.
Fall Bride 2008
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IF YOU WERE GETTING MARRIED IN CHURCH I WOULD SAY PUT A WRAP WITH IT . BEING THAT YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED AT RH TOTALLY GO FOR IT THE BACK IS THE ONLY OPEN PART ITS FINEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE AND GOES NICE WITH YOUR DRESS 100%.
Shell84
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The dress is hot, but I don't think it's too sexy. Just have the girls wear a little jacket over it for the ceremony. I would love to wear that dress as a BM.
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Posted by Mimacat
IMO those dresses are going to draw some attention - some positive, some negative. Why take anything away from you? I'd go with something more demure and simple.
I agree with this, but i do loooove those dresses!!
what it comes down to is that you and your BMs are 100% comfortable with the dresses.. if yuo love them in it and they love being it it, then do it.. maybe to please your FMIL you can have them wear a wrap or pashmina during the ceremony so she doesnt notice as much, and then later on in the evening they can take it off!!
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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i think it is beautiful!!! as long as all your bm's have the shape for it! im all 4 it!
megzzie
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If you love the dress and your BMs love it, then I say go for it. It's your wedding!
chrispar
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I think this is a gorgeous dress and as long as your BM are comfortable in it I say go for it. If you are getting married in a church though you may want to get them cover-ups
ETA I see that you are getting married at RH so forget my last part
Mici n KC
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Thats the thing... they LOVE it just as much as i do. i mean we're all pretty young so this is how we would dress im just concerned about hurting my FMIL AGAIN. I dont want her sitting in the front row of my ceremony having heart palpatations.
I think it's a beautiful dress. I wouldn't worry about FMIL. She'll be focusing on you and her son. Just make sure your BMs are comfortable in the dress.
