So my one BM that has been the only one to give me any problems, so far, has dropped out. She lost one of her jobs last week and told me yestarday that she doesnt want to be in the wedding. I understand but, pissed at the sametime. She is bad with money and asked me to hold money for her last year so this wouldnt happen but, she spent it all. Even though she'll be getting UE she still doesnt want to be and I had this feeling for awhile but, now she has the perfect excuse to back out. Oh well I'll be returning her Coach bag now. I know I sound like a b itch but, there are toher things behind this and if you know you would be able to understand more.... not just being a money issue for her.
mlcvln129
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Don't worry. . .I had one drop out this weekend, too. She said it was school-related, but if she REALLY wanted to be there, she would have made it work. I mean, I went cross-country TWO DAYS BEFORE THE SCHOOL YEAR STARTED for hers. . .
Oh, well. The girls who really care wouldn't pull that crap!!!! Good ridiance, I say!
MrsDtoBe09
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Don't waste time being angry... let it go and be thankful you're not in her financial situation.
DinaAndRob
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I totally understand how you feel dress twin!!! I had a GM drop out last week and my wedding is in 52 days!!!!! I was so pissed!!! He said he can't come to the wedding because he doesn't wanna leave his wife who is due the end of May....hello my wedding is in March!!!!!!! Oh well.....now I have an uneven bridal party, which annoys me!!!! It's true when they say you find out who your real friends are during the whole wedding process!!!!!
bride2bebe
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Aww- I'm sorry but, look on the bright side- This gives you another chance to choose someone who can be more accomodating and accepting of her role as your BM.
One door closes and another one opens!
Good Luck!
MrsDrinkh20
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Oh goodness christine, im sorry she dropped out. Its tough though because finances are so yucky for everyone right now...imsure there is more behind this...i understand why you are upset. Dont let it bother you. You said she had given you trouble so now no more drama in your bridal party!
bride2bebe
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Aww- I'm sorry but, look on the bright side- This gives you another chance to choose someone who can be more accomodating and accepting of her role as your BM.
One door closes and another one opens!
Good Luck!
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Posted by MrsDtoBe09
Don't waste time being angry... let it go and be thankful you're not in her financial situation.
Trust me I am thankful Im not but, there are other reasons behind it and I wont display her life on here.
gina409
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ughh im sorry..im sure things will work out just as they were supposed to...
dazies1011
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Posted by MrsDrinkh20
Oh goodness christine, im sorry she dropped out. Its tough though because finances are so yucky for everyone right now...imsure there is more behind this...i understand why you are upset. Dont let it bother you. You said she had given you trouble so now no more drama in your bridal party!
Thanks Lauren... true about no more drama
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I'm goin through a similar problem too. one of BM took it upon herself to 'run the show' on my shower and bachelorette party. my sister who is my MOH feels totally stepped on by this girl and my other BMs are complaining about her. Apparently she sends them emails that are novels about details of the shower and what everyones duties are going to be. My MOH was insulted when she told the girl that they were gonna have the shower at my mom's house instead of some fancy restaurant. I don't want to ask this girl to drop out, but i think she and my sister may have had words unknown to me and she may drop out on her own. It's one less bo-k to pay for.
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I wish some of mine would drop out...i should have really thought about it before I asked they turned out to be way shady.......consider yourself lucky!!!!! better you find out now then have her in all your expensive pictures.
bobchris1023
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I can't relate, I had to kick out 2 of my BM, they left me no choice really in the matter. If you knew my story you would totally understand and agree with me.
Dani777
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Not worth the time or energy being angry... I had a BM drop out too...I let it bother me for about a day... ha... then I realized that I can keep her gift, and now there will be less stress and all that... lol.
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Awww that is terrible. I mean, times are extremely tough right now but you do know more so I wouldn't even bother staying upset over this. This is your time to be happy and focus on the good things in your life. Plus like the others said, now you can pick someone else.
