BM nonsense

I have been such an easy-going bride. I've literally asked nothing of my bridal party, nor have any of them offered to help with anything throughout the planning process. I've done everything by myself except for times when FH has been able to help with certain things.

To make things easier on my bridal party, I asked them to get any black satin shoe for the wedding. They had free reign as long as the shoe is black and satin. One of my BMs still hasn't gotten shoes and just emailed me to tell me that she can't find anything she likes/is willing to spend money on except for a black leather shoe. She went on to say that she's 'pretty much done looking for shoes' and that she doesn't see why I'm making them get satin anyway. Mind you, the rest of the bridal party has already picked up their altered dresses and she hasn't even gotten shoes yet.

There's literally nothing else I've asked, nor is there anything else I plan to ask of them. Seriously, you can't find a black satin shoe anywhere?

Ummmm seriously black satin pumps are the easiest to find.

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Posted by spdy540

thats ridiculous. these are probably the most popular shoe and they come in 100 styles as well as really cheap to expensive send her to payless if she doesnt want to spend the money some of my girls got their shoes their because they were never going to wear them again

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THIS!

or dsw.com or zappos.com

just send her links and tell her to click 'buy'

That's ridiculous....I'd understand if it was anything but a black satin shoe...they're everywhere!!!

I'm having bridal party issues myself and am about to unleash my inner bridezilla...I feel like the nicer you are the more they take advantage.

wow are we sharing the same bridesmaid? lol literally the same thing happened to me last week. all i asked was for a silver shoe. ANY EFFING SILVER SHOE!!! and she called me a brideszilla!!! lol i find it laughable now but last week i was about to throw my desk at her. lol

yup...some BMs are just made to make life difficult!!! no offense but there are websites dedicated to black satin shoes!!!!!!! ***!