I think BOTW and telling your FH why you love him are two completely different things.. QOTD helps brides get to know each other better.. I'm glad everyone voted to pick a new BOTW because I dont think the QOTD should be replaced, but maybe added on to.
To be different and original maybe the BOTW can give also give us something cute to do each week, like text your fh the reasons you love him
well the QOTD can be like a 'unit' (for the whole week) and telling our FHs why we said yes can be like a 'chapter' (lolol, I'm explaining this just like I plan my lesson plans) because, just like Shannon and Beth said, if it wasn't because of our FHs, we wouldn't be here. JMO
youre such a teacher lady !! haha
thank u, thank u I find myself doing this pretty often -besides at work-
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Di you're such a love! but you're too late, it's already been decided by others that BOTW has rules and cannot change, so a new BOTW has been chosen! And a great one!
Love you though!
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Edit: plus we can still get to know eachother with posts other than QOTWs, just like we've been doing it all along by posting questions, vents, NWR questions, going to g2gs and so on.
why fix it if it is not broken? I dont think its that serious.. you can also text your fh you love him without forfeiting the QOTD , i just think they are two different things. Its not like the last one to be chosen for the kickball team, its fun! I was chosen by my date twin, she was chosen by her hall twin, its not a popularity contest. FUN FUN FUN everyone seems to forget what this is about
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Edit: plus we can still get to know eachother with posts other than QOTWs, just like we've been doing it all along by posting questions, vents, NWR questions, going to g2gs and so on.
why fix it if it is not broken? I dont think its that serious.. you can also text your fh you love him without forfeiting the QOTD , i just think they are two different things. Its not like the last one to be chosen for the kickball team, its fun! I was chosen by my date twin, she was chosen by her hall twin, its not a popularity contest. FUN FUN FUN everyone seems to forget what this is about
then you chose your SEXXX TWIN!!! sorry I just couldn't resist! LMAO
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Posted by bebita0830
Edit: plus we can still get to know eachother with posts other than QOTWs, just like we've been doing it all along by posting questions, vents, NWR questions, going to g2gs and so on.
why fix it if it is not broken? I dont think its that serious.. you can also text your fh you love him without forfeiting the QOTD , i just think they are two different things. Its not like the last one to be chosen for the kickball team, its fun! I was chosen by my date twin, she was chosen by her hall twin, its not a popularity contest. FUN FUN FUN everyone seems to forget what this is about
then you chose your SEXXX TWIN!!! sorry I just couldn't resist! LMAO
ok yes then i chose a sex bitchh but she deserved it more than anyone else ! she is the sweetest pumpkin pie on earth and helps everyone on this site even when they dont deserve it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Wow, thanks Jenn for making me BOTW! To be totally honest though (as I always try to be), I don't want to be BOTW!
When I first joined LIW, I tried to ask cute questions but soon realized this was reserved for BOTW. I thought it was a cool idea. In the last few months I've had more of the impression that BOTW was more of a popularity contest than an honor, and I've been dumbfounded with the harassment some BOTW's have gotten over their questions. I don't feel like BOTW is a fun and enjoyable experience anymore.
Considering the craziness that occurred last week on the boards, I'd like to set the veil on the floor and encourage an open environment where everyone is a special bride this week, no matter who you're friends with or what anyone wants to ask.
And finally, I'd like for everyone to use the time it would take to answer a QOTD each day, to text/call/email/bbm their FH and tell them a reason why you said yes when they proposed/why you proposed to them. Today I will be telling FH I said yes because of his consistent thoughtfulness.
Thanks guys!
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PB's
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Wow, thanks Jenn for making me BOTW! To be totally honest though (as I always try to be), I don't want to be BOTW!
When I first joined LIW, I tried to ask cute questions but soon realized this was reserved for BOTW. I thought it was a cool idea. In the last few months I've had more of the impression that BOTW was more of a popularity contest than an honor, and I've been dumbfounded with the harassment some BOTW's have gotten over their questions. I don't feel like BOTW is a fun and enjoyable experience anymore.
Considering the craziness that occurred last week on the boards, I'd like to set the veil on the floor and encourage an open environment where everyone is a special bride this week, no matter who you're friends with or what anyone wants to ask.
And finally, I'd like for everyone to use the time it would take to answer a QOTD each day, to text/call/email/bbm their FH and tell them a reason why you said yes when they proposed/why you proposed to them. Today I will be telling FH I said yes because of his consistent thoughtfulness.
Thanks guys!
Love it!!!!!!!!!!! I know it's kind of cheesy but I was actually upset that I have never been picked and I have been on here since March and have seen brides come and go. It kind of took the fun and honor out of it for me. Everyone else please enjoy the honor of being BOTW!
You do realize everyone was talking about you before ren, right? We're all sort of dumbfounded about it :(
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Posted by rendel
Posted by bethie853
Wow, thanks Jenn for making me BOTW! To be totally honest though (as I always try to be), I don't want to be BOTW!
When I first joined LIW, I tried to ask cute questions but soon realized this was reserved for BOTW. I thought it was a cool idea. In the last few months I've had more of the impression that BOTW was more of a popularity contest than an honor, and I've been dumbfounded with the harassment some BOTW's have gotten over their questions. I don't feel like BOTW is a fun and enjoyable experience anymore.
Considering the craziness that occurred last week on the boards, I'd like to set the veil on the floor and encourage an open environment where everyone is a special bride this week, no matter who you're friends with or what anyone wants to ask.
And finally, I'd like for everyone to use the time it would take to answer a QOTD each day, to text/call/email/bbm their FH and tell them a reason why you said yes when they proposed/why you proposed to them. Today I will be telling FH I said yes because of his consistent thoughtfulness.
Thanks guys!
Love it!!!!!!!!!!! I know it's kind of cheesy but I was actually upset that I have never been picked and I have been on here since March and have seen brides come and go. It kind of took the fun and honor out of it for me. Everyone else please enjoy the honor of being BOTW!
You do realize everyone was talking about you before ren, right? We're all sort of dumbfounded about it :(
everyone wanted you to be picked did you see the thread.. i wish we could vote ren : (
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PB's
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No offense Rendel, but this is now ridiculous. It's proving my point and is very mean to Amanda.
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PB's
, , and
what is that? is that an 'inside joke' of some sort?
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No offense Rendel, but this is now ridiculous. It's proving my point and is very mean to Amanda.
oh please, has nothing to do with amanda. she is sweet and will make a great botw.. i always thought ren should get it, not over anyone else, just in general. quit with the already
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bebita0830
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Posted by bethie853
Wow, thanks Jenn for making me BOTW! To be totally honest though (as I always try to be), I don't want to be BOTW!
When I first joined LIW, I tried to ask cute questions but soon realized this was reserved for BOTW. I thought it was a cool idea. In the last few months I've had more of the impression that BOTW was more of a popularity contest than an honor, and I've been dumbfounded with the harassment some BOTW's have gotten over their questions. I don't feel like BOTW is a fun and enjoyable experience anymore.
Considering the craziness that occurred last week on the boards, I'd like to set the veil on the floor and encourage an open environment where everyone is a special bride this week, no matter who you're friends with or what anyone wants to ask.
And finally, I'd like for everyone to use the time it would take to answer a QOTD each day, to text/call/email/bbm their FH and tell them a reason why you said yes when they proposed/why you proposed to them. Today I will be telling FH I said yes because of his consistent thoughtfulness.
Thanks guys!
Love it!!!!!!!!!!! I know it's kind of cheesy but I was actually upset that I have never been picked and I have been on here since March and have seen brides come and go. It kind of took the fun and honor out of it for me. Everyone else please enjoy the honor of being BOTW!
Tell me about it!!! I've been here since February and I've never been a BOTW but just like u Ren, it def took the fun/honor out of it, specially knowing that it seems that once u get chosen as a BOTW (if u get chosen) u gotta follow some type of protocol and u can't be inventive about it
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really girls
all and all im so tired of the bs here
i think its a bad week for me to be bride of the week with all the drama surrounding it
ive done nothing but try to be nice and help everyone and this is just too out of hand
its not about starting drama ive always tried to squash it its just the constant nonsense
im just so over all the gossip its terrible
Ren, take the bride of the week ill pass the drama, because all day its been nonsense and its silly
im over it girls & i believe i need to take an LIW break
done
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Posted by Jsquared
Posted by bebita0830
Edit: plus we can still get to know eachother with posts other than QOTWs, just like we've been doing it all along by posting questions, vents, NWR questions, going to g2gs and so on.
why fix it if it is not broken? I dont think its that serious.. you can also text your fh you love him without forfeiting the QOTD , i just think they are two different things. Its not like the last one to be chosen for the kickball team, its fun! I was chosen by my date twin, she was chosen by her hall twin, its not a popularity contest. FUN FUN FUN everyone seems to forget what this is about
then you chose your SEXXX TWIN!!! sorry I just couldn't resist! LMAO
ok yes then i chose a sex bitchh but she deserved it more than anyone else ! she is the sweetest pumpkin pie on earth and helps everyone on this site even when they dont deserve it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
