Re: Bridal Gown Dress Shopping... The Search begins

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsMango

Seriously?! One word, troll. And 'dude' you need to cut the cord and let your FW have whoever she wants in her bridal party & bring whoever she wants dress shopping. It's nice to have a FH involved but you seriously are Wayy to controlling. Nice 'save' by the way.

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Re: Bridal Gown Dress Shopping... The Search begins

Catfish...

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Hoooray Hooray! Enjoy your cake ladies... Troll, ouch, I'm moving over to the NYCweddings forum hahaa.... I knew this was coming one day haha. This wasn't actually a big deal to me, which is why I wasn't going to post. Just passer-by conversation, which was posted, and I then decided to go HAM on here for some reason.

I'll admit, I did sit there for a half hour trying to write the prior post like I was in some kind of argument with her/myself. I got carried away posting. The FW and I never had an argument or spoke too deeply into the matter. I don't want to fight with you ladies either, got enough monkeys on my back hahaa (not meant to be offensive, my mind just has no filter).

Thanks for the reality check Mizz Mango, but Troll? kind of harsh and I can't seem to grasp how I was one here. FYI, the BM thing was the only serious (I don't know what to call it) we've had. We do go Vendor shopping together, but we make the decisions together. She'll vouch on that one.

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Posted by Alyssa M

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^FW literally right now after reading all this...

Thanks for scaring her sensitive self away ladies, she won't be posting much with this kind of backlash. All mine for the taking I guess, she wasn't going to be on here much anyways. Not-trolling around on online forums is more of my thing.

-token OUT
P.S.: I know I've come across one other one. Where ya at man?

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*** is happening right now?

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CarpeDiem... just an FYI... the nycityweddings.com and this forum.. are one in the same. You'll get the same chicks.

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I bet she'll vouch that you're a tool bag too

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Posted by CarpeDiem

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Posted by Alyssa M

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-token OUT
P.S.: I know I've come across one other one. Where ya at man?

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Maybe he's helping his FW decide on fit and flare vs princess?

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I can't...I just can't with all of this!!!

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsMango

I bet she'll vouch that you're a tool bag too

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Really???

You want to take this outside? This site really brings out the b***h in me, mainly because of its' estrogen enriched content, but your starting to piss off the other %98 percent of this New Yorker. I don't care for these online squabbles, especially unfounded ones like yours. Since we're all on LI, we could have one of those double date meetNgreets and I'll vouch my FW EDIT: I'M GOING TO KEEP MY FW OUT OF THIS, DON'T FEEL LIKE DRAGGING HER DOWN WITH ME WHEREVER THIS WHOLE DEBACLE MAY GO... I'll stop right there in respect to the women on this site...

Look, I made my amends with my FW and we have no issues, in fact we have one of the strongest relationships I know. We've grown tremendously over the years. I do take a lead on figuring some things out for our marriage (basically vendors), but that's because she wants me to (find the best and negotiate a deal). The decision making is always discussed together and her opinion is extremely important to me. I come on this site to express some of my own feelings (even after my EDIT: 'MALE EGO' slaps me for doing so). Our families are very close and all I meant was to keep them all involved somehow. Besides all that, I already said this Gown thing meant nothing to me EDIT: AND WAS JUST MERE CONVERSATION, so either be constructive with your comments or F off.

-Token

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Posted by CarpeDiem

So WHO should I be taking gown shopping with me???

I already figured the 2 people who's fashion sense I trust most, which includes my MOH and best friend.

Now should I be taking my mother, his mother, my other bridesmaids, my sister, his sister, etc... Like, should I be including them or feel obliged to include them in the process?

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Keep the number of people you bring down to a minimum. The larger the group... the more opinions (some wanted but most unwanted) you'll get.

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Ok first off, I was not going to add my two cents, but how DARE you threaten someone! Do us all a favor and get your hood rat *** off these boards!

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Carpe/token/catfish/troll. BACK OFF. You just threatened someone who happens to be pretty effing awesome. If you were a REAL man, you'd realize none of us give a sh!t about your FWs fake louboutins.
Strong relationship? None of us on here have to brag about that because we already KNOW it's true. Our fiancés don't have to come on here to defend us because we support each other and are level headed.
Your poor FW can't come behind the keyboard and speak for herself or are you just not letting her?
You try to come off as so funny but really REALLY just look and sound like a tool.

Go home.

-token b!tchy bride who won't take your sh!t out

Btw ever watch li princesses? You should meet Amanda's boyfriend. I think you too would really get along well ;)

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Aw what's the matter? Is it something I said? It seems I'm not the only one who called you out yet I'm the only one who hurt your feelings. You said this site brings out the Bltch in you? Funny because you haven't acted like a real man once since you've been around. You mentioned your d*ck and I was shocked because the way you act I for sure didn't think you even had one. But since you cleared up that mystery it must huge, because that has to be the only reason someone would stay with a tool like you. Oh $hit, i shouldnt have called you that again. Wouldnt want to hurt such a manly man's feelings.

And for the record there is not a chance in hell your 'FW' (if she even exists) would even have a chance against me. And I'm sure you wouldn't let her fight in Loubs. You're Wayyy to controlling for that. Come on now, you can't fool us

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I'm actually waiting for his 'FW' to step in and tell him to not make her and her loubs fight his battles for him.

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsMango

Aw what's the matter? Is it something I said? It seems I'm not the only one who called you out yet I'm the only one who hurt your feelings. You said this site brings out the Bltch in you? Funny because you haven't acted like a real man once since you've been around. You mentioned your d*ck and I was shocked because the way you act I for sure didn't think you even had one. But since you cleared up that mystery it must huge, because that has to be the only reason someone would stay with a tool like you. Oh $hit, i shouldnt have called you that again. Wouldnt want to hurt such a manly man's feelings.

And for the record there is not a chance in hell your 'FW' (if she even exists) would even have a chance against me. And I'm sure you wouldn't let her fight in Loubs. You're Wayyy to controlling for that. Come on now, you can't fool us

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I wish, this site had a 'Multi-Quote' option...

Anyways, the backlash was over the way I responded, including a 'threat'. Like I said I don't care to deal with online squabbles behind keyboards. I apologize to the community for the 'threatening' messages and hope you can read the words between them now, but I don't see how they can also condone Mango's posts. I'm not even going to respond to you...

@Ro: I wasn't bragging, just explaining that my relationship is not the way it's being portrayed BY OTHERS. I even post my dysfunctional issues, real-deal, bragging is the last thing on my mind. You have some real admirable friends to support here, but I don't see how she's one of them. You lost me on the lil princesses though.

@Nikole: Appreciate your initial temperance. I was just calling someone out for their unnecessary words. Or confronting. The real hoodrat's still lurking around.

@the FH's getting vented to about me currently: I don't care to argue online, I'd rather just hear sensible thoughts. Online or in Real Life.

@those wondering what's to come of FW on this site: nothing, she never cared to use it and now never will care too...


SPECIAL THANKS GOES OUT TO THE FOUR HORSEMEN OF LIWEDDINGS... It's great to see a tight-knit community. I was deterred from using the site momentarily, but I really don't care anymore. The only opinion that matters is the FW's & my own. I'm done here, say what you will. Catch you on a different Forum Post!

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FH and I too have a big close knit family and Fh's sisters asked if they can come when I went dress shopping. I told them that I just wanted my mom there since I am her only daughter and didn't want to take that moment away from her. They understood I guess cuz I didn't hear smack after that. Once I picked my dress and had my accessories, I went back with FSILs and FMIL to have them see the full picture. My brother's wife didn't take my mom or me to see her dress (we saw it on their wedding day) and FH's family knew that so when I took them see my dress, they appreciated it.