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Bridal Party....

annabellagirl Posted:

Bridal Party....

So this is my 2nd wedding...

FH has never been married before and he has 6 guys he wants in the bridal party... I really didnt want a HUGE bridal party at all but i need to do this for him!

Our small wedding has turned into my big fat italian wedding LOL

Is it possible to get away with 6 guys, but only 4 girls??? I just want my sis, his sis, his cousin and my niece (who's only gonna be 15)

He has 6 guys!

I know this may sound silly but I feel that asking people to be in a bridal party is a huge thing, and i dont want people feeling obligated to spend the money to be in my wedding....

Ahhh what to do??!

Im getting Married Posted:

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Have 2 guys walk with one girl

IrishAli Posted:

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can 2 of the guys be ushers, but still be in the pics? My FH was in a wedding party like that- she only had 3 and he had 5, so two of the guys were ushers but matched the other 'wedding party' guys. Everyone was happy.

AngnShaun Posted:

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I dont think 6 is huge... i think thats average... i had an uneven bridal party... theres nothing wrong with that... if he wants these guys there then they should be...

annabellagirl Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun

I dont think 6 is huge... i think thats average... i had an uneven bridal party... theres nothing wrong with that... if he wants these guys there then they should be...



I agree - he cant have one and not the others, they are all his best friends....

I just wasn't sure if it would be funny if i only have a few girls!

Also, my niece is going to only be 15 - is it appropriate to have her walk with one of the guys?? They are all over 30.... I feel funny about it - hmmm
AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by annabellagirl


Posted by AngnShaun

I dont think 6 is huge... i think thats average... i had an uneven bridal party... theres nothing wrong with that... if he wants these guys there then they should be...



I agree - he cant have one and not the others, they are all his best friends....

I just wasn't sure if it would be funny if i only have a few girls!

Also, my niece is going to only be 15 - is it appropriate to have her walk with one of the guys?? They are all over 30.... I feel funny about it - hmmm



My niece was 15 but we had my BIL who was 14 walk with her...

thats a tough one... i feel like I dont think it would be appropriate for her to walk with an adult...
annabellagirl Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun


Posted by annabellagirl


Posted by AngnShaun

I dont think 6 is huge... i think thats average... i had an uneven bridal party... theres nothing wrong with that... if he wants these guys there then they should be...



I agree - he cant have one and not the others, they are all his best friends....

I just wasn't sure if it would be funny if i only have a few girls!

Also, my niece is going to only be 15 - is it appropriate to have her walk with one of the guys?? They are all over 30.... I feel funny about it - hmmm



My niece was 15 but we had my BIL who was 14 walk with her...

thats a tough one... i feel like I dont think it would be appropriate for her to walk with an adult...




EXACTLY - ok so im not nuts then LOL
im gonna have her walk down with my nephew, her brother....

leesah85 Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun


Posted by annabellagirl


Posted by AngnShaun

I dont think 6 is huge... i think thats average... i had an uneven bridal party... theres nothing wrong with that... if he wants these guys there then they should be...



I agree - he cant have one and not the others, they are all his best friends....

I just wasn't sure if it would be funny if i only have a few girls!

Also, my niece is going to only be 15 - is it appropriate to have her walk with one of the guys?? They are all over 30.... I feel funny about it - hmmm



My niece was 15 but we had my BIL who was 14 walk with her...

thats a tough one... i feel like I dont think it would be appropriate for her to walk with an adult...




my cousin got married on my 16th birthday and i was in her BP. she's 14 years older than me and I walked in with one of her friends who was like 35 years old at the time. it was a little awkward, but i mean, what are you gonna do.
LaBellaVita622 Posted:

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sure it is! we were originally going to have more guys than girls and I was just going to have my brother walk with 2 of my girls

harts2976 Posted:

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It's fine! have 2 guys walk down with 2 girls at a time.

angelatp Posted:

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Posted by harts2976

It's fine! have 2 guys walk down with 2 girls at a time.



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FutureJOC Posted:

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Posted by Im getting Married

Have 2 guys walk with one girl



exactly. It's totally fine for the #s not to be even
rendel Posted:

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we have an odd number wedding party too, we are having one of the girls walk with 2 guys, she had no complaints

annabellagirl Posted:

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THANK YOU girls!!!!!!!

aquag12283 Posted:

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That should be fine. Im having 6 girls and fh is having 8 and I think its fine

spdy540 Posted:

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It's fine I have even seen people walk by themselves its your wedding anything goes

Lana and Johan Posted:

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I think it is fine. Have a few people walking in by themselves or have 2 guys with 1 girl. I am sure it will look great. Dont worry about the little things.

TheEyesOfMarch Posted:

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It's OK, i was stressing over being uneven too but in the end it's OK. We haven't announced our BP yet either but looks like it'll be uneven.

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