Brides who are paying for everything

NYgirlinTX Posted: Sep 17, 2009 01:47 PM

Brides who are paying for everything

I am sitting here at my desk thinking wedding like usual and I have to ask.... Is there anyone else who seriously is worried about how they are going to pay for everything???

FutureJOC Posted: Sep 17, 2009 01:51 PM

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yes!!!

That is one of the main reasons we are waiting so long.

Soon2bShea Posted: Sep 17, 2009 01:52 PM

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i just hope it all eventually 'falls together'

barbtony Posted: Sep 17, 2009 01:53 PM

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Posted by Soon2bShea

i just hope it all eventually 'falls together'

I couldn't agree (hope) more!!!!!!!

Tonys_Girl_03 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 01:53 PM

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OMG... I'm always stressing about paying for everything. My fh and I take extra work whenever we can and we are trying to be very smart our budget. Right now everything's ok, but I know the closer we get to the wedding, the harder and more stressful it will be.

Don't worry, you are definitely not alone!!

futuremrsjc2010 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 01:54 PM

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Me too

StaceyWill Posted: Sep 17, 2009 01:54 PM

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Yes...I worry about it a lot!!! We are already really behind according to my budget-but I'm hoping everything works out

NYgirlinTX Posted: Sep 17, 2009 01:57 PM

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Posted by StaceyWill

Yes...I worry about it a lot!!! We are already really behind according to my budget-but I'm hoping everything works out

Same here... Fiance and I are desperately trying to find Night jobs. We figured we might as well kill ourselves over the next 8 months with work, work, work, rather then stress, stress, stress. I ask myself often, 'Why couldn't I just have been born a TRUST FUND BABY' then a little voice answers me back (Yeap, this is when we know we are going crazy, we answer back) Bc we will appreciate it more this way!!!

KatieG2010 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 01:59 PM

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FH told me to worry when he starts to worry. He isnt worried however I am petrified. I mean we can borrow from our parents however I really want to do this all on our own..

hoping and praying

regy_k Posted: Sep 17, 2009 02:01 PM

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we are paying for about 60% of the wedding, and it stresses me all the time, how to come up with the rest of like 30%, cause we have so far only 30%
aaaaaah #'s driving my crazy!

DaniandKen2010 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 02:01 PM

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I have NO clue how we are going to pay for everything..we are BROKE and I can't work any more jobs or hours.

MayBride2010 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 02:03 PM

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You are definitely not alone honey. FH and I are paying for about 90% of everything. Plus we just decided to buy a house....so, with that we decided to put off our honeymoon til our one yr anniversary in the interest of money, the wedding, and housing. It is real tough...and we constantly wonder if it will all work out (we know it will....somehow!!!!) We are both not having any fun with the idea of having no extra money whatsoever right now - but realize that it is all worth it in the end...

amarra121 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 02:04 PM

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me!!! Its all on us. I dunno what wer going to do.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 02:06 PM

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Yuppppppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and we hit the one year mark tomorrow

scatteredx12 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 02:36 PM

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Yes We've been saving for forever but then there's all the little things that you forget about... Ugh.

Not to mention, yesterday was the 4 month mark for me and now we're getting soo close and I'm getting so scared!

blessed18 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 02:38 PM

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its hard but i have learned that cutting some things of the list helps alot.

MrsCM Posted: Sep 17, 2009 02:48 PM

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We aren't paying for the entire thing ourselves but a lot of it and I still freak out about it from time to time. DH keeps saying 'but we got money at the wedding' as he wants to go splurge on all this stuff and I keep saying we have a wedding credit card that's going to be paid off as soon as it's out of 0%

latinaj Posted: Sep 17, 2009 02:53 PM

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YES its hard!!!!!
just got to budget, save and plan carefully!

Smilenr0 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 03:22 PM

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Posted by NYgirlinTX

I am sitting here at my desk thinking wedding like usual and I have to ask.... Is there anyone else who seriously is worried about how they are going to pay for everything???

I wake up and go to bed thinking on how we are going to pull this all off