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Brides with Children...

vicandbarbara09 Posted:

Brides with Children...

Are you wearing a white dress? I have a 10yr old son . This is my first marriage. I am not getting married in a church

People are asking me if I'm wearing white when I tell them yes they all say 'YOU ARE?' sounding really surprised

I spoke to FH about it and he says this is YOUR wedding forget about what other people say.

Am I wrong for wearing white?
gina409 Posted:

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i dont have kids..but ive had sex..alot of it.. im not pure ..im wearing white...u should def wear what ever color u want and screw everyone else
MrsGRod09 Posted:

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I have a child my FH and i'm wearing white lol. Seriously though the whole white thing is totally out the window nowadays, if you want to wear white then go for it. Only virgins are to wear white so none of us would be wearing white or any shade of white.

NY2009 Posted:

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I have a 12 year old. I am wearing ivory white. You wwear whatever you want! The not wearing white thing is outdated!

Aliaxtra Posted:

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I have 2 children with my FH.
I am wearing Diamond White

It took these past 2 days of hell for me to realize that people are very jealous and dont have anything nice to say.. apparently i shouldnt be getting married..

SOOOOO
My response to your question is..
Its YOUR day and YOU can WEAR whatever YOUR pretty little heart desires!!!
And that's that!

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise..
matzena Posted:

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I have a 14 month old daughter and I am legally married by JOP for 2 years now.. We never had a church ceremony at the time(Which I have always wanted) and we are having one this August(Finally ). I am wearing white although my father & grandmother think it's wrong and that I'm a disgrace .. It's my day and I'll wear white if I want to.. People should just be happy for you and not care what color gown you are wearing...Do what makes you happy
littlepixie12 Posted:

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i dont have any kids, but you should wear whatever you want

lilmartha59 Posted:

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im wearing diamond white
Karsav7096 Posted:

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I am also wearing diamond white. But thats only because thats the dress I fell in love with. I was asked a few times if I was wearing white and my response to the question was always the same. I will wear whatever I want on MY wedding day if it is orange with multi color polka dots or virgin pure white it will be whatever makes me happy!!
matzena Posted:

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Posted by Karsav7096

I am also wearing diamond white. But thats only because thats the dress I fell in love with. I was asked a few times if I was wearing white and my response to the question was always the same. I will wear whatever I want on MY wedding day if it is orange with multi color polka dots or virgin pure white it will be whatever makes me happy!!



Love you answer!!
KerriJohnS Posted:

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Posted by Karsav7096

I am also wearing diamond white. But thats only because thats the dress I fell in love with. I was asked a few times if I was wearing white and my response to the question was always the same. I will wear whatever I want on MY wedding day if it is orange with multi color polka dots or virgin pure white it will be whatever makes me happy!!



TOTALLY! You should tell these people the same answer! WHen they say REALLY?! You shuold say.. YES REALLY.. I CAN WEAR WHATEVER COLOR I WANT, WHAT'S IT TO YOU?

shell1879 Posted:

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i visioned myself in ivory but after trying dresses on i liked the white on me better.
i have a 6 year old but this is my first marriage and i really don't care what other people think it's my freakin wedding !!!

i say if you like white wear white you don't want to look back at your pics thinking wow i should have done this or that. Do what is gong to make you happy
KYBride09 Posted:

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I'm wearing white.

KittyGags Posted:

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This question is so ridiculous! If the white dress=purity thing still stood, NO ONE WOULD BE ABLE TO WEAR WHITE!

Wear what you want!!!!!!!!

Sorry I meant to say--people asking you if you're wearing white is ridiculous!
MrsOrtiz Posted:

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They are just hating on you because you are living a normal life! Some people just try to make themselves feel better by putting you down.. WEAR WHITE FROM HEAD TO TOE!

amandamh23 Posted:

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i am wearing ivory but i picked out my dress before we even knew about the baby she is only 4 months old. but i picked out the ivory because it looked better on me than the white but its your day wear what you want

Jayla127 Posted:

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It's YOUR day!! YOUR way!!

I'm definitely wearing diamond white.!!
gip32680 Posted:

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I have a 4 yr old son who was my ring bearer. i wore a blue dress but it had NOTHING to do with having a child. Blue is my favorite color and as a little girl I always said I wanted an ice blue dress, kind of the color of my birthstone which is aquamarine. My dress wasn't exactly ice blue but it was good enough for ME! Plus i just really liked the idea of being different.

If anyone has anything to say about you wearing white, then tell them they need to look up the history of wedding gowns. Blue (royal to navy ) was the color for 'purity' then somewhere in the 1800's i think some Queen someone (the name escapes me) decided to be 'different' and wear white on her wedding day and the trend just stuck around. So there take that!!!

Your wedding is for YOU and FH no one else. If you wanted to wear a barney the dinosaur costume then that's your choice...although i would have to talk about you behind your back on that one So ROCK that WHITE dress
angels914 Posted:

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WEAR WHITE !!!!!! I have chldren ... and everyone is happy about that my dress is white !!!! Who cares what people say .... You should do what you want to do ...and tell everyone else if they don't like it that you will wear a white dress , then don't come to the wedding !!!!!!!!!!

JoAnnJuneBride Posted:

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Wear white, heck wear fuschia if you want it's your day who cares what others say. I do have children with FH and am wearing ivory but only because opinion)

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